We have been chatting for 4 months, and things have been pretty good...!! We will meet up soon, and I must admit that he is so cute and I worry if i start acting like "talking too much" girl because of shyness!!! Tell me what is the best way to assert myself ans stay calm and not to talk too much...!!! He seems attracted by me, but what is the best way to take out my good side in front of him? what is the best way to spend time with him more than 2 weeks????
2007-06-16 05:10:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o.k. first of all, are you going to spend 2 weeks with him? or see him in 2 weeks? how old are you? how old is he? e-mai me with the answer and I will try to help you out. kimdmorelli@yaho.com
2007-06-16 05:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by kim d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? you probably don't realize that he could may as well be feeling the same exact way as you, so if you are nervous that's fine that's not un-natural. But some advice that i can give you do not bring any of your friends along and the same goes for him because it will make you feel even un-comfortable because now you have to pose for 2 extra people, but the main thing to do is just be quiet and listen, laugh at his whack *** jokes if possible, and even this is a good way to not be so shy talk about one of your family members doing something funny, or talk about your pets if you have any or i know this might sound like this should be off limits, but you could even talk about politics just as long as you stay neutral. But like i said even if you are nervous so what!
2007-06-16 12:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he will understand that you are nervous and give you at least a couple of meets to give your nerves a chance to calm down and i'm sure if you tell him that you talk a lot when nervous he will know that it's not what you are normally like.
2007-06-16 12:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by marthesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bond with him by telling him the most traumatic experiences of your life. Tell him about your issues. Men like that. Cry. Tell him that it's destiny that you be married. Immediately. Cry more. Convince him that you're damaged goods by telling him about the worst relationship that you ever had. Exaggerate the bad parts. Even if you weren't beaten by your last boyfriend, say that you were. He'll get protective. Cry even more.
2007-06-16 12:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I met up with my online friends, it was kinda awkward at first, but then I started to warm up and we were talking like we normally did. I would probably start off by saying things that you have already talked about in the past--like, things you're already familiar with. Once you've broken past that little hump, you can then start to talk to them normally again. :) I'm sure you'll warm up to them and them to you pretty quickly.
2007-06-16 12:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, JUST BE YOURSELF! If you haven't been putting on a show when ya'll chat then you should be alright to talk to him in person. YES, it's going to be awkward. you just have to see past the mouse, computer screen, and keyboard!
2007-06-16 12:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open to the the person and be yourself. You might talk too much because you are nervous.
2007-06-16 12:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're spending more than 2 weeks with him? I don't know, stay safe. And make good choices.
2007-06-16 12:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how. you feel, But i think is best just to be yourself, upfront, if they don't like you the way you are, then maybe is not for you..well if he is really interested things will last more then 2wks, if not it will only last 1 day
2007-06-16 12:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by shaquie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well MOST chatroom relationships does not really last long, better to just be yourself, if you think you are talking too much, maybe that's what made him attracted to you.
2007-06-16 12:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by sharron_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋