it hurts me because i will never see him again, he moved to florida, and i fell in love. and i know this because all the other crushes i didnt care for, and this is like an obsesssion, and right now, i feel hurt. help me. please.
2007-06-16 04:50:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not into his money i dont care, he was kind, and thats what attracted me to him.
2007-06-16 04:54:04 · update #1
i even have loss of appetite and cant stop thinking of him and wishing to go back
2007-06-16 04:55:35 · update #2
Respect your fathers feelings and move on.
2007-06-16 04:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Low Contributor 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 47...where are all the girls like you anyway? LOL. Seriously though, you really should try dating people that are in the same stage of life that you are. A 19 year old and 47 year old could be great friends and maybe even sex partners but you really can't have a long term relationship because your priorities are so different. You are going to be looking forward to things that he has already outgrown. I have many friends that are in their late teens and early twenties. I just try to help them not make the same mistakes I did. We talk about things that are pretty personal sometimes and we exchange outlooks on things, it's like they help me see what the world looks like to younger people and I let them know what it's like from my perspective. I seriously doubt that any of them have a crush on me or vice versa. Maybe your crush is something like that for you and you got confused?
2007-06-16 05:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine it would be easy to fall for an older guy. Someone who has lived as a young man with no experience and even less in his heart.
Feel lucky that you have had someone in your life that has made you feel this way. It won't be your last. You will meet many people that will touch your heart and soul very deeply.
I am concerned that you call this an obsession. In the world today, we are not expected to openly show our love for others. With all the perverts in the world it has become unacceptable to love everyone. It is a shame.
Live, love and don't be sad about loosing someone. They will always be in your heart.
2007-06-16 05:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Am a dad too 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over this and you will be stronger for it provided you don't go rushing around trying to fill the void or chase after him. He obviously didn't feel the same way about you. That's okay. There's more than one man out there for you. Live your life and sooner or later, you'll find the pain will diminish and you'll meet someone else.
2007-06-16 04:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Keztacular 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's for the best that he has moved...u will hurt for awhile, but u r young and have ur whole life ahead of u, so just hang in there--when u r able u should evaluate urself, why would u get involved with someone so much older, why did it become an obsession--to me, it implies you are insecure, so I would look at fixing that before another relatonship
2007-06-16 04:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by YedidNefesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you open your heart to someone it creates love, if you close your heart, it causes obsession! Perhaps you want him because you can't have him. You are only young and I'm sure other special people will come into your life. I don't want to sound patronizing but unfortunately getting your heart broken is all part of growing up.
2007-06-16 04:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad bad and abd...sorry....but that is like you being Anna Nicole Smith...that is bad....i know u love him not for his money but...there is like a 30 year age difference...if you want kids...you cant have them...its not good to have kids when you are young...you should wait for another person....i might only be 13 but..my mom was dating a WAY older guy...and it didnt work out...so...just wait a little more..please?......
2007-06-16 05:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe what you are feeling is infatuation. or maybe you expect that your dad will be the same. Anyway, if you are really in love with the guy, i will say go for it, but maybe he felt that the age gap is too wide for him to handle. It is best that be clear of what you are feeling and consider his too.
2007-06-16 04:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by sharron_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and don't try to please the world. None of us can ever live up to the standards the world seems to impose on us. Contact him and see if the feeling is mutual and if it is then go for it.
2007-06-16 04:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow common mistake. Your not in love with him, but with the feeling of love. You need to check your feelings for the truth.
2007-06-16 04:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus IS REAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋