ok i am a bit chubby i work out alot but still got some meat on my stomache area, right now i am dieting to loose some weight , i have a werid thing with me is that i dont want to be in a relationship where the girl only likes my personality i want her to like me for both my looks and my personality , i want to adore her and i want her to adore me is this a little weird what do u think
2007-06-16 04:46:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds perfectly normal, you have a good system going.
2007-06-16 04:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this isn't weird at all finding someone with a great personality is great but it doesn't matter what anyone says there has to be attraction. But how do you know that what you find attractive is what the girl is going to find attractive there are some girls out there that like their men a bit bigger and cuddly. If everyone was attracted to the same type of person this world would be a boring place.
2007-06-16 04:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by marthesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important part of wanting to be loved is to know how to love. remember, you cannot give what you dont have. in your case, loving yourself (taking care of your shape) will aid loving another. :) so don't worry, keeping the self in tiptop is not at all weird, projecting your best self is never a sin. just make sure you strike the right balance so as not to look otherwise bragging.
As for the tummy thing.. try to do 30 crunches daily, have very minimal fat, jog..and most importantly, have an optimistic outlook in life. that brings more color and radiance to your face. :) no matter how your tummy looks like.. :)
2007-06-16 05:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by deedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not weird. You sound like a great guy. You know phsyical attraction is a huge part of a relationship and you just want to be as desirable in her eyes as she is in yours.
2007-06-16 04:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're over-thinking the attraction thing. How are you ever going to know exactly why someone likes you without asking about it so obsessively that you appear insecure? (That will harm you badly). Maybe it doesn't matter so much "why" they like you, just that they like you. Build from there. Good luck.
2007-06-16 04:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting someone to like you for more than your personality....but you sound like you have self confidence issues...
2007-06-16 04:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by mamzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go Deen! working out is always good for you. but when you meet the right lady, she will love you no matter what you look like anyway.
2007-06-16 04:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't be able to stay toned forever, beauty fades.
but i know what you mean. if your partner looks after themselves and they see you do it adds to the attraction. naturally round still looks good but overweight isn't attractive.
2007-06-16 04:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by MrFlibble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go running. Even if you are fat the ladies will see that you are running.
2007-06-16 04:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with someone who loves me for no reason at all....What Say.....
2007-06-16 04:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Allied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋