We're both 18 and it's our 1st relationship. We've played around but not had sex yet...both virgins. She asked me this last night and I didn't know what to say.
2007-06-16 04:26:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a turn on for us girls, but saying that, never do anything you're not happy with to please someone, my suggestion is tell her you will if she masturbates too, as that will be a turn on for you too, if she says no, then tell her she shouldn't expect you to do something that she's not prepared to do herself
2007-06-16 07:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gabs is very much a prude :-) There is nothing sick about masturbation or watching ....
If your girlfriend asks to watch its because it will turn her on. If a girl is turned on that is good !! For goodness sake just do it, and ask to watch her do it.
And ... don't say something is gross, or sick unless you have tried it at least once ...
Enjoy ;-)
2007-06-16 05:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cherub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, it can be very stimulating for both of you. But ... unless she agrees to let you watch her do it then she is probably playing the dominance game and you should think about her attitude towards you and if it should be a long term relationship.
2007-06-16 05:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wiccan Warrior 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do it!! She's wanting to learn by watching the expert. Who knows more about what you like than you? Once she learns what you enjoy, she'll be more able to please you. For example, she can be exploring and trying different things, and if she's not getting a positive response from you, she can always go back to what she KNOWS you like.
And you could do the same from watching her.
2007-06-16 04:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dippy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Close you eyes & pretend noone else is in the room & just do it, then just peek to see if your girlfriend is masterbating to you!
Once you get going it will fine, you have to learn what pleases your girlfriend & i'm sure she'll only be more than happy to do the same for you.
2007-06-16 04:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dannie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it bro. It will just get her more in the mood. Ask her to return the favor. Good luck!
2007-06-16 04:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what a question my thoughts are wow give me her number ill show her the lil minx. wip it out lad dont be scared lol
2007-06-16 12:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. More than likely she will start too and then you never know what could happen. Have fun...
2007-06-16 04:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just do it - get her to start it off and do the deed and ask her to sort herself out while you do it
2007-06-16 04:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"any thoughts?"
Less thinking and more action. Go with the flow. Come what may (pardon the pun)
2007-06-16 04:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by erika 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋