I can't marry a woman I did not disvirgin myself. How do you see it? Am I right or wrong?
2007-06-16 04:12:58 · 15 answers · asked by GreatPaulo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i get the feeling you will always be a batchelor my old son
2007-06-16 04:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I believe allot of women are as you put it disvirgined because of the charms of men these days to bed women. Also some women may not have religious belief's or because of family issue's & see it as a way of escaping by seeking comfort in a man!, a situation I know of personally was beliving the guy was going to marry me & thought I would be with him forever & my consulsion of that was being too young & nieve. There's alot of temptation out there & people these days don't have patience to wait for marriage it seems everyone out there is doing it & the programs on tv seen to encourage casual sex. If you want only a virgin that's your choice so stick to what you want but I wouldnt pre judge women who have lost it & are not marriaged because everyone has a story to tell on how that happened to them & usually regreat it or wish they waited but life doesn't alway's go to plan doees it?.
2007-06-16 12:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by on-point 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha disvirgin. wow.. the lady you marry is going to be superlucky (note the sarcasm)
Well, im not a virgin and its because im not dictated by the religious beliefs of the generations before.. i dont think its necessary to stay a virgin until marriage. However, i do only have sex with the man i care about and plan to marry... i dont see anything wrong with that.
Welcome to the 21st century dear... you have some catching up to do.
2007-06-16 12:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by la428282 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Disvirgin? Who are you? Borat?
You're neither right nor wrong, it's very much down to you decide what's right for you.
2007-06-16 11:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not as straight forward as a simple right or wrong. What's right for one person may be wrong for another and vice-versa.
Why don't girls wait until marriage? Well why should they? Marriage isn't for everyone anyway. Why get married when it's a proven fact that most marriages end in divorce?
2007-06-16 11:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by erika 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
using words like disvirgin will mean that you will remain single, let alone a batchelor!
2007-06-16 12:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rebz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but if a woman goes in to a marrage as a virgin an on the wed. night when yall get married the "love" makin isnt gonna be what it should be its gonna hurt the female rather than let her enjoy it an now-a-days its not impossible but its hard 2 find a virgin
2007-06-16 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by SarSAr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha! you'll be lucky mate! whats all this disvirgin malarkey...
we are women not commodities..
hey.. i guess you arent a virgin then???
you are unreal!
2007-06-16 12:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by tiny_lou1965 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's neither right nor wrong.
I am going to be a virgin on a wedding night, but that's my choice.
In the end it's up to you what you want to do. But personally, surely other things, such as personality, should be more important than whether they have had sex.
2007-06-17 09:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by littlepixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disvirgin??...Do you know this is 21st Century - women have the vote now and everything!!
2007-06-16 12:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DISVIRGINED???????????????? I'd never marry a man who thought my only value was my virginity!
2007-06-16 11:18:34 · answer #11 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋