I don't understand. Im a nice guy but i never get respected by girls. I know drug dealers, junkies, killers, evil people they even get more respect than me. People always say , oh your a nice guy things will work out. Then i see all these bad people getting everything i want. So what good is it to respect girls anymore. Its 2007, im sorry to say but i think respecting teenage girls has become a thing of the past. What do you think??
2007-06-16 04:01:14 · 24 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, when i respect girls i see them as more than a sexual object unlike most of the people i know. I try to see them for who they are, but i guess they dont seem to want that, at all.
2007-06-16 04:09:44 · update #1
I think you should just keep showing them respect. theyll give you it in return. just find the right girl for you, shure it might take some time, but dont be affraid to just wait for yours. youll find the one eventually. keep respecting girls too! =]
2007-06-16 04:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bizzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry u r doing the right thing there are not many men out there that are like you, but when girls are young and nieve(cuz iv been there to) they feel more attracted to the guy with the bad boy complex, they want all the excitment of a bad boy but all the respect of a guy like u, which usually doesnt turn out that way, and itll take sum time befor they realize that the bad boy will always be a jerk off, and now they want the nice guy, so dont worry your time will come everyone needs to just grow up alittle more or find a girl whos been hurt by a number of bad boys cuz that means she could possibly be in the process of realizing the good guy might be the better option 2 date. so dont worry and dont change
2007-06-16 04:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Diana D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean (or specifically, I understand how you can get that impression) but respecting women of all ages is important because it demonstrates a healthy respect for yourself. Respect in general does seem to be a thing of the past (at times), but I also know that attitudes shift radically from generation to generation so I maintain some optimism that respectful considerations will once again come "back in fashion". Whether it does or doesn't however, it will always be the right thing to do. Good luck to you.
2007-06-16 04:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry.. But I don't think you should just do the same thing as them.. That's what makes you special!! Not being like them is a smart choice you could do.. Imagine one thing.. If you be like them and don't show respect or anything like that.. you're just going to be trashy like them! I'm sure you deserve better than that! There's s lot of people out there looking for somebody like you.. I know they're getting everything that you want now.. But later you'll see who worked hard is who deserved better!! You may not get this things now.. But you have to work hard for it.. The hardest way is the best in the end.. The easiest in the beggining.. the worse in the end..
Just Be yourself!! And Fight for it!!
Good Luck!! =)))
2007-06-16 04:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is very important. You can't hope to get girls to sleep with you if they don't respect you... and even if you manage to it will only be because they are using you for other purposes and feel that you will not give them what they want unless sex is involved. In turn you must also have a certain level of respect for the women in your life... but at the same time even more respect for yourself. It is human nature to view people without confidence as unworthy of respect, so it should be obvious that you will first need to have a degree of confidence in yourself before you can expect to gain the respect of a woman. You are a man, and you need to let girls know that, and show them that you will not tolerate any level of disrespect towards you... which can only be done if you first have the respect of your friends and family. This is because people tend to be led by example, and if you bring a girl out and a friend of yours comes along and she notices that he is showing you disrespect and thinks lower of you, she will most likely view this as ok and begin to do the same herself. People will ALWAYS take advantage of others if given even the slightest opportunity, so always keep your guard up and stand up for yourself in even the smallest conflicts so you never fall into a situation in which people begin to show you disrespect... because one person doing it can quickly turn into ten in the blink of an eye. Hit Me Up On Yahoo IM Brimm4yourbody If You Need Any Tip On Things Brimes Out
2007-06-16 04:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brimm4yourbody@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a teenage female and I feel like lots of teens have lost respect for themselves so that's why others have ost respect for them. I personally like someone who respect me because whether these girls know it or not, drug dealers, junkies, killers, etc. don't really care for them or their feelings. So just stay being the nice guy you are because one day girls will realize how rare and special you are!
2007-06-16 04:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Honeysuckle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're just going through the same thing that almost all niec guys go through.I had a guy friend that was so nice and he had a huge crush on me but I just couldn't ever see him as anything more than a brother.He had to sit and listen to me gripe about all these guys that treated me like crap but he never got to hear the words that he wanted to hear me say to him...Even though he gave up on me,I found a nice guy that I'm now happily married to...So don't give up on being a nice guy&keep respecting those girls,you will have your chance!I know it sucks to hear that and it not happen but things truly will work out for you!
2007-06-16 04:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Cloud Dancer♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to sound cliche but, give it time... a hindu psychologist once told my brother "a girl is like a flower... you have to let her bloom before you pick her".. most teenage girls haven't come close to growing into the womant she'll someday be... they just want adventure and are testing the waters.... so if a rebellious guy comes along they know that they'll have an interestiing experience dating him... even if he's not a very good person...
but as we grow up women start looking for the guy that they want to spend their life with... and this guy is the opposite of the rebel... he's smart, funny and (dare i say it) a good guy... my husband's a good guy and he's the best person that i've ever been with... i figured out that adventure doesn't mean dating a psycho anymore... now it means loving someone so much that you can spend your life with them and never get bored!!
don't worry... i will get better... and if you stick to your guns and continue you be a moral and good human being you'll get the best girl that there is... you'll get the "good girl"
2007-06-16 04:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by danii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get some new friends. Fast.
Drug dealers, junkies, killers and evil people aren't exactly the best crowd to be hanging round with...
2007-06-16 04:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're hanging out with the wrong teenage girls, if they are that distracted by drugs and bad guys. Look around -- there's lots of girls who are hoping a guy like you comes around, but they probably aren't hanging out with drug dealers.
2007-06-16 04:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree im a girl teenager and dont worry about the other people if you like someone talk to her and let her get to know you better. things can change and then everything WILL be better!!!! Dont hang out with those people its bad news! good luck
2007-06-16 04:07:51 · answer #11 · answered by Lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋