Looks or personality?
By what men like I don't mean anything rude!
2007-06-16 00:53:31 · 17 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks ARE important, because if you don't know somebody at first, they are the only thing you have to go on. However, men like all sorts. Don't believe all this twaddle about men only liking slim and pretty girls. Any girl who has 'something' about her, is non-ugly and is comfortable with herself, will have admirers. It doesn't matter about size or shape, or even if you have so-called 'imperfections.' A lot of the time these add to a girl's uniqueness.
Men love UNIQUENESS too. That's what I mean by a girl having 'something about her.' If a girl stands out for whatever reason, and is interesting and memorable, she too will get admirers.
PERSONALITY is hugely important. What good would dating a good-looking girl be if she was uninteresting, or boring to be with. A girl who is cultured, interesting, intelligent and humorous, is on to a winner (I love those kinds)
SEX VIBE, also very important. Let's face it, men are full of hormones too, and a 'programmed' to go after a girl who flaunts her sexuality. If a girl can be sexy and eyecatching in a nice, non-desperate way, she will have PLENTY of admirers!
CHARM - This are numerous types of this: shy, innocent, cheeky, alluring, flirty and so on. Having a way of making men think about the personality as well as the looks really works. Men also love girls who are warm-hearted, loving and affectionate. This is related to a girl's charm.
CONFIDENCE - In these more enlightened times, men love girls with confidence, who may also make the first move on them. It takes the pressure of us. Girls with a presence (Confident girls who are comfortable and at peace with themselves and their bodies!) are VERY attractive.
UNDERSTANDS MEN - Just like you ladies love guys who understand you, guys love girls who understand how men work. This makes for much better relationships, and cuts down on rows.
OPEN-MINDED - Accepting a guy for what and who he is, shortcomings and all.
SENSE OF FAIR PLAY - I can't stand the selfish girls who expect men to do everything and pay for them all the time. The thought of being wined and dined might sound romantic, but if you are generous and offer to share things, you wil go very far indeed.
Hope all of this answers your question. Basically any lady with lucid positive qualities will be on to a winner.
2007-06-16 01:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has to be looks first to be attracted to them, but then personality very close second. You could be the most beautiful woman in the world but if you have no personality whats the use. Beauty is only in the eye of the beholder, i believe theres somebody out there for every one no matter what you look like. Stay positive you will find out soon enough.
2007-06-16 01:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by tracy.bear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe men like looks instead of personality. But I think it should be the other way.
2007-06-16 01:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by lawan k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that almost all men go for looks first. That's the only thing that they can make any judgement on. Then slowly the other things click in, conversation, wit, is she interesting to talk to, does she have a sense of humour. If you are lacking in one thing, maybe you make up for it in another.
One night stands are usually based on looks, not the person.
2007-06-16 01:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tony-Pony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality is FAR more important that a women who has looks and no personality. What will these women have 15 years down the line WHEN the looks have long faded?
2007-06-16 00:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
looks first then personality if he wants to stay with for a long time.
The look first because it is cheap to categorize people as pretyy and ugly and go for the pretty girls, however if someone really loves he will look at your personality. No one want to live with a monster*
2007-06-16 00:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by JM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to be honest firstly we go by looks. once we get too know the person we judge thier personaility. for example if i liked someone and i found that they were agressive towards me. then i probably would not ask them out. its hard to explain but i think you get the picture.
2007-06-16 02:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Carl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindhearted/ Sweet / Cosy to be with
Reasonable looks (non-ugly)
Not Frigid (average+ sex drive)
Enjoys/Likes Cuddling
Something in common
Likes/Loves Animals
Likes/Enjoys romantic/nice gestures
etc.........
2007-06-16 01:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
for me pesonally i like both and i am being truthful because beauty is obviously important but having a great sense of humor and and good personality is also good and if someone doesnt like you it is their loss
2007-06-16 02:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by supernatural 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well am 39 yr old lady and for years i have seen guys look at my butt,so its obvious they go for body!!!!!!!!
2007-06-16 01:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by terri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋