Ok, it was late in April this year. My boyfriend sat outside in the youth cafe and a our girl friend came and she f*cking sat on my boyfriends lap! My boyfriend thought it was cosy! The first time that young girl made a mistakes. She talked a lot of bad things about me and i didnt realy know her that much. We just only greet each other. for the first time I forgave her but in the second time now, she did it with a purpose!! how can i tell to my bf not to talk 2 her anymore? if he really loves me, he will follow what i say. heeelp!!
2007-06-16 00:09:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this girl was trying to get my friends bf too. she was flirting n everything!!
2007-06-16 00:13:02 · update #1
I agree with Kia.
Although, it was probably more for a wind up, so you're just playing into their hands. Flirting is harmless, it's the insecurities of the person on the receiving end that suffer.
You are obviously unsure of your b/f's feelings, ask him how he feels about you.
How long have you been together? Who usually makes the dates? Did you chase him or did he chase you?
There's alot to be taken into consideration.
Why not just treat it as a joke, after all, he IS with YOU, isn't he???
2007-06-16 00:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Oros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not "tell" your bf not to talk to anyone. You can let him know your feelings and hope that he loves and respects you enough to stop doing these things.
I think I would be more worried about him not caring about her sitting on his lap...that should be your throne.
All you can do is talk to him and let him know how all of this makes you feel. Then see what he does about it...if he lets it continue, then I would re-think my bf. If someone loves you they do not do things they know will hurt you.
So let him know these things hurt you, see how much he loves you and then go from there. You might have to dump your bf.
be cool...
2007-06-16 07:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh its me,
i told her that if she would just stop talking about this i would promise not to ever let her sit on my lap etc anymore.
But she didnt, and last night while we were playing wii, suddenly for no reason she was so angry about that girl that she pulled my hair and ran out hiding in the hall for about 30minutes.
so i decided the other girl can still sit on my lap and she will just have to deal with that..
2007-06-16 07:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by bob e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your bf how u feel if he doesnt listen dump him u are 2 young 2 go thru this its 2 many fish n the sea!
2007-06-16 07:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by veg4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very messy situation. It's not up to you to decide who other people talk to. Maybe, though, you should look for a new bf.
2007-06-16 07:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't own him, so you can't decide who he can talk to.
Maybe if you treated him better he wouldn't be playing around with that girl.
You could start by cleaning up your foul mouth...
2007-06-16 07:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he needs to hold other women in front of you, and you can't figure out what to do, I don't think suggestions will help.
2007-06-16 07:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey forget him! This guy didn`t loves, he plays with your feelings! When he really would love you, he didn`t do that!
Please forget him, and find an other boy, that means it seriously!
2007-06-16 07:15:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this girl 2 f*ck off!
2007-06-16 07:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight that ur fed up with that and threaten him it works everytime.
2007-06-16 07:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋