okay. need help!!!!!!!?

Question

well i need help. theres this guy i met online and i saw his picture and everything. i havent known him long but i like him alot. i feel like i've known him 4 like ever. what should i do?

Answer 1

Meet up with him in a neutral and VERY public location and see where it goes from there. It is impossible to know how you really feel about someone until you meet them in person, and evaluate the chemistry !!!

Answer 2

Calm down and remind yourself that this is an online relationship. You have no idea if that picture is really him or that the things he says are the truth.

Many guys will say whatever they think you want to hear just to get laid. Lies are very easy to tell over the internet. If you do decide to meet, make it a meeting at a public place, preferably with someone tagging along with you (like an arranged double date.)

Answer 3

Be sure to not rush and meet him right away. I mean there's a lot of stalkers on myspace (which i know thats where you met him). I live in CA and there are a lot of girls who meet "hot guys" from the internet and end up getting killed. Talk to him on the phone for a few months. If you still decide you wanna meet up with him, make sure it's a public place (i.e. Malls, Restuants, etc...) and make sure you bring a few friends with you. It's an unsafe way to meet boys.

-Jeff-

Answer 4

trust me pics on these web-sites can be worng. So don't always trust what you see unitl you see him for real. You never know how you will react if he is not as goodlooking as he said he was. So meet him somewhere like a big resturant or somewhere there is alot of people. You can't be to safe when meeting someone from the Internet.

Answer 5

well yea ya feel like ya knw him for like ever
but u truelly dont
people like to be the best over the internet
and internet is not the place to really know someone
if he lives near u i mean in the same city
u can go one day to a public place
with out giving him real info about u
and where u r staying
and get to know him
and see if he is for real
but dont get ur hope high
i mean
like there is gazillion liars over the internet
so
i doubt this is a good place to meet someone

Answer 6

ok.. u can never be to careful when it comes to these situations. first of all.. if uve talked to him a while and feel comfortable maybe u could start talking on the phone. if he seems like a nice guy after u talk to him, tell your parents. if u want to meet him.. do not hang out 1 on 1!!!! go as a group of friends, there is that chance that he is not who you think he is!!

Answer 7

Well get to know him better, but be carful because you never know. My brother met his former girlfriend online and they dated for 2 years. Talk to him more, maybe in the future plan to meet. Good luck and be safe.

Answer 8

You should be very careful because people post a lot of lies and misinformation on line. If you plan on meeting him then make sure it's a public place or even set up a double date.

Answer 9

Back up a little. Get to know him, not for ever, but for a few weeks. Then talk to another guy on line for another week. Think about both of them and which one you like more and why. Then talk to another guy just for the fun of it. Tell us what happens.

Answer 10

Well continue talking to him. Make sure you feel comfortable with him before you make any sort of plans to meet up. If you make plans to meet up with him make sure you go with a friend and go to a public place. Make sure you have a phone with you fully charged. And just because you feel a "connection" with him doesn't mean its always gonna be safe.