Thoughts of suicide because ex g/f ruined me.?

Question

I just cant get her out of my mind, havent spoken to her in over 2 1/2 months, she really hurt me bad. I was at the lowest point in my life and she goes off and cheats on me. Then stabs me in the back when I get back on my feet and send her a beautiful Tiffany's cross and heart necklace. How could a woman be so cruel. I was with her for 4-5 years, i just cant get rid of the pain.

Answer 1

Suicide is never the answer just keep looking you will find the right girl for you.

Answer 2

you have a right to feel betrayed, its hard when someone we love hurts us that way. you are also angry and rightfully so. , i know that is hard for you to accept, you feel pain, because this was someone who should have been there to support you in your need, instead of kicking you while you were down. That is like a double whammy. your heart and ego are bruised right now, but in time you will rise above this, It will take time, I understnd you have put time into this relationship. But move on, its better that it was only 4 or 5 years before seeing her for what she was, instead of another ten years.on down the road . keep yourself busy. the money you spent, is well worth the true colors she has revealed to you. when ever you find yourself thinking about her, push it aside and focus on something else. you will 'be ok after awhile, but you must make an effort , After what she did , is she worth your time and heartache? you are not ruined, just badly bent , She is not even worth suicidal thoughts. Get those out of your head. Start tomorrow fresh, with a new outlook, you will get past this. Shes hurt you, but dont give her the satisfaction of doing something stupid, go for better, and better yourself,. Strive to climb that mountain, dont wallow in self pity. These things happen to all of us, your not the only one. p.s. If these thoughts of suicide persist, do seek help!!.

Answer 3

Women come and go and you have to decide what kind of woman is right for you. Obviously she wasn't the right one for because when you love someone you don't hurt them, you at least try to let them down easy and try to remain friends. One thing, did you get your Tiffany gift back it did cost a lot? She don't even deserve a gift like that i would have taken that from around her neck as soon as I found out. Move on there are women that are looking for men to treat them right and in return they will do you the same. If it makes you feel any better go and mess with one of her friends and show her how to **** with someone head, but go overboard with the gift she is your exes Friend and she may also be a gold digger. My mom always say you never miss your water till you well runs dry. She will realize that and you better not fall for anything that she says. She cheated on you and she will cheat again. Move on your will find that one for you she 's out there, but you got to get your self-esteem back and become confident that it's not the end of the world. There are so many women in so little time waiting for you, but you have to decide how you want to live in it.

Answer 4

The best way to get over it is to not talk to her, u WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER, and when u do u will realize what a waste the other person was, anyone that cheats on u does not have respect for u, and that is one of the main things in a relationship, and something u should want from your next relationship. trust me you will be ok it hurts but now u learned a few things.

p.s. I HOPE YOU GOT YOUR NECKLACE BACK!!!!!

Answer 5

Thinking about hurting yourself further because you lost a deceitful woman makes no sense. I know it hurts, but you're blessed to be rid of her. It truly doesn't matter how or why she could be so cruel, the fact is, she was....and she got you for awhile. Now she's out of your life, and it's a blessing (even though you don't see it as such right now). She can't harm you anymore. That energy you're focusing on her, turn back on yourself and treat yourself with the love and respect you deserve. Think about it; you know I'm right about this. Good luck, Man.

Answer 6

hey man, i know how u feel- i was with a girl for 3 yrs when she broke it off - it sucks - but hey its been 5 monthes later and im already interested in sum1 else and her bak in me! time heals all wounds (a counsler wouldnt hurt either). Dont give up dude your life is worth so much more than that. As for ur backstabbing ex - what goes around comes around my dude, she'll get hers. i hope i helped

if u need to talk more my email is [e-mail]
Good Luck dude + Stay Strong

Answer 7

Suicide is NOT the answer to your pain. Look, I know the people who have responded have given you good answers, but they aren't good enough. You are having thoughts of suicide, taking your own life. Please seek professional help right now. You can't get the help you deserve from the people on yahoo.

Answer 8

NO. I don't really know you and I fully disagree. You can't let her get to you. She obviously wasn't worth your time in the first place. Suicide doesn't just hurt yourself think of all the others you'd be leaving behind because of one person. You should really talk to someone and fully divulge yourself to letting go. Any pain you still have is because you refuse to let it go. Suicide is a sign of weakness; proving you can't go on and be strong. I know you can be strong.

Answer 9

I understand how you feel, it sucks that it could be that miserable feeling of not an importance in this world.
Dont let that girl let you down buddy, keep your chin up and that frown upside down.
You are a value to this world, i hardly know but it is surely true.

Answer 10

your kidding right!! you said you loved her not obsessed with her, your standards that you had her on a pedestal, its not your fault, but you forgot to stand up there with her, all you did was have her look down on you from the pedestal you put her on, look break-ups are not easy but use it as a learning tool, people are out there that were or are never taught how to care about others feelings, chin up, you got the better end of the deal, your not like her...