When you find out your hero isnt really a hero...he lied...my brother lied he isnt a hero.....well he is because hes in the army but hes not because he lied...
2007-06-15 19:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by Bon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
FIRST EVERYONE LISE AT ONE POINT IN THERE LIVES...DON'T HOLD IT AGAINST HIM. TRY TO FIND OUT WHY HE LIED, THEN ACCEPT IT, FORGIVE AND FORGET IT. BEING A MAN IS HARD. NOT BEING ABLE TO SHOW YOUR TRUE WEAKNESSES AND FEARS, THAT HE WOULD RATHER LIE THAN TO FEEL LIKE HE IS LETTING YOU DOWN.
2007-06-15 20:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by carmela m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in the army doesn't necessarily mean you're a hero. But if he lied he must have a good reason for it. Generally speaking, you can't trust liers.
2007-06-16 02:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've never lied???? Ever????About anything??? How about cutting the guy some slack. He's in the army. Just respect that and forgive his shortcomings. Non of us are perfect.
2007-06-16 02:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just accept that he's lied and move on. In the future you will be less apt to trust him but there is nothing you can do to change the truth.
2007-06-16 02:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen. Don't hold it against yourself. Before you can forgive him, forgive yourself.
2007-06-16 02:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's perfect. Perhaps you should ask yourself why you have him on a pedestal.
2007-06-16 02:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh.. you get over it?? you didn't say what he did, so it's hard to tell if he really did something unforgivably bad or if it's just something minor..
2007-06-16 02:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by idgaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋