Husbands how do you treat your wife? are you good and kind to her or do you speak harshly and critical of her?

Question

Do you spend quality time with your mate? Or do you just feel like she is just there , like part of the furniture?
Tell me how you treat her, I am curious as to why men do the things they do, as if they don't care........?????????

Answer 1

GOD has blessed me with perfect woman which He created for me. Am so fortunate.
Do not deserve such a loving, godly woman
for I do fall short of loving her as Christ loved the Church. God has placed a very high standard upon me - as to how I am to love, respect and adore her. My wife is intelligent, virtuous and is far more precious than any jewels and her value is far above rubies, diamonds and pearls. I trust in her confidently and always believe the best of her. She is my Best friend whom I always enjoy spending quality time with. Neglecting her would be neglecting myself-for in marriage GOD has made us one. She comforts our children and me {as the Holy Spirit Comforts us within). She walks in discernment - encouraging and edifying me.
My wife is humble: she does not point out my faults - she prays for me and allows the Holy Spirit to change me within. Rather than talking the talk- she walks the believers walk. My wife is quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to take offense and slow to get angry. Our children respect my wife. When she opens her mouth to speak, Godly wisdom comes forth and godly instruction and council proceeds from her mouth. She has never been one to look down upon another and the bread of idleness-that is gossip, slander and all unwholesome words are never part of her speech. She is my crown. It is only by the Grace of GOD that she has become my wife. We do everything joyfully together. For me there is no guys night out - she is the only one I wish to spend time with. I love her unconditionally always respecting her.
We submit one to another. God has shown me that in such a manner I am to be competitive with her: Am to be the servant {not wishing to be served). I am to clean the house - doing a better job than she does. Am to cook, striving to be a better cook than she is. Am to wait on her, as a servant and to serve her and my 2 children joyfully.
Am to protect her - making her feel safe. And am to always provide for her financially
Am to always love her affectionately and to always esteem her above myself. I speak highly of and praise my wife. She is all I could ever have hoped for in a wife and more. She is a woman after God's own Heart! She is loving, compassionate, patient, intelligently wise, humble and pure. It is only By the Grace of God and by His Holy Spirit that I meet her every need. She is my Best Friend which I love to spend time with. If there is someone who ever makes me look good - encouraging me and praising me - it is my wife. And I most definately do not deserve such unconditional love from my wife. She loves me even with all my faults, knowing God is always who is daily working in me both to will and to do of His Good pleasure.
No price could ever to put on my wife. A person could offer me all the money in the world for my wife and I would say no. She is worth more than the world could ever offer me. God blessed me with my wife to make me complete. And it is only through our Relationship that we Together are able to fully glorify God.
I Love my wife with all my heart and Praise GOD and Glorify Him for Blessing me with my wife. Some have nick names for their wife - I do also -- it is simply "My LOVE !"

Thank You for your Question. And Please pray for us{my wife and I) for June 20 [in just a few days] is our 13th Anniversary!

*"May the Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the Love of God the Father, and the Fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all!"
2 Corinthians 13:14

Answer 2

i am not a husband yet
but i know for sure i wouldnt be like that with my wife
i try my best to give my gf all the attention she needs
and all the rights and things she deserves
but some times i am just not in the mood or so
thats when her part of understanding comes


i will talk about my father
my father is a really good man
i know this because i remember
back when i used to go to school
and taking lunch
my dad would let my mom sleep after long nights
with my baby brother
and come and make us lunch
and whenever she is tired he used to help
as much as he could even if was just back from work
our weekends was the best
on saturdays
he would take us all out
but on sunday
its just their day
my oldest sister used to baby sit my brother
and it worked great
i never remember it that my dad talked to my mom
in an appropriate way
never did he insult her at least not infront of us
as i never witnessed that
nor heard my mom complain
he always asked her for her opinion even for the
tiny stuff
till he passed away one year ago
he was 40s
it was really bad
my mom is living and trying to act normal
but she was never the same
that is how i really want to be when i get married
so it sounds too romantic and too dramatic
but i know i lived in such a home
and want that for my self
and my kids-to-be

i know some men just get stupid some times
but talk to urs about it
hope he will get it
maybe he is just acting with out noticing
best of luck

Answer 3

With love. That is the only way. Some times I make mistakes and treat her unfairly, but I have learned to recognize those times. Sometimes I understand that I need to be strict and not give in.

When communication is open and done with plenty of love the meaning of the message is always understood regardless of the mistakes made when sending it.

Answer 4

great
good and kind
we raise children x2 so no real alone time
shes there in a way like furniture your favorite couch the best place to sit in the whole house the center of the decor without which the house falls apart.
I care deeply

Answer 5

I treat my wife of 24 years like a queen and a lady. What, exactly, is your beef with men now? Do not some women treat their husbands like sh!t where you're from?

Answer 6

"Husbands love ye your wives even as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for it."

A departure from the teachings of Christ is what we see in society. Man now has no more esteem of his wife than he does a prize hunting dog.

Answer 7

I yelled at my wife one time on Oct. 20th 2004. She cried, I'll never do that again.

Answer 8

my hubby treats me GREAT!
he even feeds me after a I juggle oranges or do parlor tricks for him.
who could ask for more.
and on holidays I get to cook him a lovely meal...lol

Answer 9

mine treats me like gold

Answer 10

We are one flesh, and she's the better half.