ive been dating this guy named John for about 4yrs and it has been good exept we don't talk any more he trys to avoid talking to me but we do everything else like seeing movies and i live with him , but i met this guy named Tony when he was selling me a car and my friend is the one that hooked us up but he works 45min-1hr away and lives in a town that is 10mins away and we have been seeing each other since feb. and he only sees me at his convince and that is like a month at a time...and i think that he is using me but he says that he is just busy and idk which one to chose because i love John and i just like Tony idk what to do........
2007-06-15 15:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by ELbear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tony is exciting to u b/c ur cheating on john, so this is a thrill. he is probably not going to marry u, b/c he is banging other chicks w/o u knowing it. stick to John and forget this. no good will come of it.
2007-06-15 15:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by david w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your definitely traveling a path that could lead you to a lot of hurt.
John is obviously the safer choice, but if your not happy with him most the time, talk with him about it. If that doesn't work you can always move out and move on.
As for Tony, if your keeping John around and he finds out about you hanging around with some other guy, the reaction may be unfavorable...
2007-06-15 22:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be living with John you are not married to him. Tell John about Tony and see what he thinks.
2007-06-15 22:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you cheated on your guy?
2007-06-15 22:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋