an ex wants to hang out.. it was supposed to be a group thing but everyone else cancelled out. i have a boyfriend now and i really just don't feel comfortable in this situation but I already told him i was free because i was caught off guard... what should i do?
2007-06-15 14:47:06 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like honesty best so you don't maybe lead him to think you might still have some feelings. Or semi truth and tell him your new man is not at all comfortable with it. Or out and out lie and tell him you are as sick as a dog. Text this to him to make it easier. :) Best of luck!
2007-06-15 14:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Brenda~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth that u dont feel comfortable in the situation because if u lie and he finds out then theres a chance that he will think that u still have feelings for him and i get the feeling that u dont want that so honesty ur best bet here
2007-06-15 21:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him that something came up and you have to cancel. If he presses you for what let him know that you scheduled something with a friend that you totally forgot about. Thank him for the invite and hang up. Problem solved.
2007-06-15 21:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you were free but your boyfriend wants to do something, so maybe the group can get together next week.
2007-06-15 21:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you were looking forward to hanging out with the group but since they won't be there you've made other plans with your boyfriend
2007-06-15 21:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by asyle 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that its your grandparents 50th anniversary party and since theyre kinda elderly they sent out the invitatoins really late and that you really have to go and need to cancel, but should definitly hang out with the group another time
2007-06-15 21:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by I am watching your every move. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth...u got a man and u dont feel its right to hang with just your ex
2007-06-15 21:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by baby_love_marybeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest about it...tell him it was ok with the group but since you have a bf...its not right that the two of you make plans together.
2007-06-15 21:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2007-06-15 21:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. If you are faithful to your boyfriend you should have no issue, right?
2007-06-15 21:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋