why is my fiance going to a sit down restaurant tonight at 10:00pm by himself?? he says he is going by himself, and i said why. and he just said because. i have a feeling what he is doing. but what do you think??
2007-06-15 13:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are going to be married in 2 months, adn we live together.
2007-06-15 14:02:59 · update #1
should i follow him to spy??
2007-06-15 14:07:45 · update #2
well i dont know him personally nor do i want too cause problems but from the sound of it he might be going to meet someone if you catch my drift but hey could be wrong so check it out some more before jumping to conclusions hope it works out.
2007-06-15 14:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by reguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Hm...maybe he has an affair? I thought that because you said 10:00pm, and thats kind of late. Thats the worst that could happen. Or maybe he is just planning a surprise for you, like a surprise honeymoon location. You shouldn't have to worry that much.
Sometimes before men get married, they have to think about things because marriage is a big step for some people and they need time to think.
2007-06-15 21:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by felisa. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my partner did that, it would not be ok. He would be hurt if i did it to him and vice versa. I would take a very firm stance on this. And make your feelings very clear. I can only hazard wild guesses as to why he would do this, and im sorry but none of them are good. What man on the face of the planet wants to go to a restaurant by himself?! exactly. Get the bottom of this one - good luck.
2007-06-15 21:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by Vicarious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG!! because he has a date.an not with you.that's just like if he said he was going to the movies by himself,come on,,could he be that stupid an obvious all at the sametime,,maybe, or maybe it's something eles? hmmm? either way it anit nothing good.
2007-06-15 21:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by cutecatdirty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might be a business meeting and he doesn't want you to know? maybe a promotion and he wants to suprise you?
it also kinda sounds like he might be cheating??? i don't want to say that though because i HOPE that's not it. but good luck with whatever you do about it =)
2007-06-15 21:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to be alone for sometime. thinking bout the wedding. but other than that i am sorry i dont know. i hope u find out.
2007-06-15 21:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live together? If so, it's a little strange. If not, it's perfectly normal.
2007-06-15 21:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is testing you........to see if you trust him......I mean if he were to cheat on you.....i am pretty sure he would have a better excuse than i am going to dinner by myself
2007-06-15 21:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by DateDr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? that's crazy! don't believe that son of a biii...scuit.
2007-06-15 21:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋