Are you sure??
I mean, I hate people saying that what matters most is his/her inner beauty. Com'on people! You didnt get nearer to him/her, at first, just because you saw his/her inside beauty from a distance.
Because the truth is, you go nearer to him/her because he/she was FIRST seen by you as PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE!
2007-06-15 13:52:07 · 17 answers · asked by Galiletta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh MY!
I like the answers of most people here....
Now Im so confuse who to choose as Best Answer!
Yahoo should start thinking of adding a BEST ANSWER TO 5 PEOPLE tool here!
2007-06-16 03:13:12 · update #1
Joe L, I dont understand what you're talking about.
2007-06-16 22:36:47 · update #2
Mari W, yours is really amazing! I so wonder things like that could happen. What's in there with these "not-so-handsome" men that people fell for them....Inside beauty...like what??
2007-06-16 22:39:44 · update #3
sammie 3,
Clit_NibIr28,
distiko
felisa, and
dontasky,
YEAH I agree with you guys. It's usually how it starts and ends...
2007-06-16 22:42:59 · update #4
Mrs. Peculiarpop, yours is a very nice life-story, I wish I could have that kind of love-life, like a Love-Story novel or a fairy-tale that ends Happily ever after...
But so sad, Im sure it seldom happens to everyone...I only wish I was one of people like you. Ended with a man who seem to be Mr. PERFECT.
Handsome, funny, and intelligent life partner: that's everyone's been looking for!.. I sure want to meet your handsome.
2007-06-16 22:47:22 · update #5
Actually, no. Someone showed me a book of song lyrics and I wanted to meet the person who wrote them. The lyrics were beautiful, smart, sensitive.
Turns out the guy who wrote them was really cute, in a kind of "still wearing the clothes his mom bought him in high school" way. Kind of nerdy. Also funny, intelligent, honest, and kind.
We were friends at first and fell in love over time. We've been married over 20 years now, and I can honestly say I love him even more now than I did when we married.
Sure, his gorgeous eyes were a factor - I do love nice eyes - but not the initial attraction.
2007-06-15 13:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to want to spit blood at this answer then. The last woman I was seriously attracted to I fell for on the basis of her beauty...but beauty as defined by her character and depth, and not her physical attributes. (Frankly, I don't label physical attractiveness as "beauty"...I'll usually refer to it as being "pretty" or "gorgeous" or some other adjective that occurs to me at the time). Beauty is eternal; looks fade over time. It didn't hurt matters any that she turned out to be pretty in the process, but I first fell for her sight unseen. Yes, I'm sure. (Largely because it was the first and ONLY time it had ever happened to me in life...thus far). Great question, though.
2007-06-15 14:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
settle down... It is the inside that matters and just because your in that way of thinking that looks come first doesn't mean everyone else is the same... yes looks are important to a degree but someone who seems really attractive could really not be attractive at all...
2007-06-15 13:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats true. When you first meet a person, you like how they look. But when you meet them and start talking to them, then thats were the inner beauty comes in. I guess they have to be beautiful on both sides.
2007-06-15 13:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by felisa. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what you're saying but in my situation that wasn't the case :). It could be a 'female' thing but I first fell in love with my partner's humor and incredible sensitivity to people's needs.
It's strange but though I wasn't physically attracted to him from the start, once I fell for his character, it didn't take long for me to appreciate the outside :).
2007-06-15 14:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yea i agree looks have the first reaction but to keep liking them they have to have the whole package and you've got to have the chemistry
buut
say your friends with someone you didnt find that attractive after awhile they may seem more attractive as you get to know them, personality can sometimes get a person far.
unless your just completely shallow.lol
2007-06-15 13:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY GREAT QUESTION!!! I THINK BOTH ASPECTS ARE IMPORTANT. I'VE BEEN IN CONTACT WITH PEOPLE THAT AT THE BEGINNING I THOUGHT I'D NEVER, EVER BE ATTRACTED TO. HOWEVER THE INNER PERSON BEGAN TO COME THROUGH AND THE ATTRACTION WAS ALMOST UNCONTROLLABLE.
BUT I HAVE BEEN ATTRACTED TO PHYSICAL APPEARANCE AND LEARNED THAT THERE WAS NO DEPTH.
WHICH IS THE GREATER OF THE TWO??? GOT ME.
2007-06-15 14:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by basskickinmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, outer beauty is what attracts people at first, then inner beauty forms a beautiful relationship.
2007-06-15 13:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Austin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question it's good to talk to good looking people as bad looking people, because were there heart is is were you well find the right person for you not every one has a bad heart but you well never know untill you talk to them and if your going for good looks then you may find the good heart then agian you could also find a rattle snake but thats up to you
2007-06-15 14:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by james196145 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha well my boyfriend is not attractive by any means. I love him to death, but when I first met him I thought he was hideous. Now that I've gotten to know him, though, I see him as the most sexy man alive. Weird, huh?
I guess that puts an end to your theory. :D
2007-06-15 13:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋