Alright its me again but to let you know this genuine and also i am adopted is it so wrong i just need to know and please if you are going to insult me dont
2007-06-15 12:08:26 · 41 answers · asked by sexy irsh babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright its me again but to let you know this genuine and also i am adopted is it so wrong i just need to know and please if you are going to insult me dont yes i am a lesbian and i am 18 and she is 35
it started when we started to wear each others clothing and i think we are attracted to each other she started to wear skimpier and skimpier clothing around me until it was nearly nothing then we became closer and closer and here i am now
2007-06-15 12:25:43 · update #1
It is not right to have sexual attraction towards your mother.
Whether you're adopted or not !
2007-06-15 12:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hippie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of this happening before. Are you an only child? If so this is probably her way of keeping you close to her, and never moving on. Does she get upset when you go out on a date? I think you should find things to do outside of the house more. It's ok to think that your mother is attractive, but you shouldn't act upon it. You obviously love your mother very much, and you don't want to hurt her feelings, but you should tell her that this isn't right, and you don't feel comfortable with her advances. Find a nice girl to spend some time with so your not thinking about your mom SO much.Again try to spend a good majority outside of the house. if you mom is single try to find a way for her to met a nice guy as well. She could be lonely, if not then suggest she see a shrink to talk about what her problems are. GOOD LUCK to both of you.
2016-04-01 09:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit like something that may be in the Eastenders/Coro script. Be very careful about crossing this line, whether you are adopted or not, this is something which people will definately frown upon. Weigh it up in your own head and think whether you could cope with the anti abuse you will receive.
Maybe talk to your mother first ahout your feelings - you could always move away??
2007-06-15 12:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ylang-Ylang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopted or not it's still wrong and illegal. Once she became your mom thru adoption she became your mom in every way... so to have a relationship would still be consediered incest. I recommend you find another good looking woman to focus on...perhaps one of her friends...but not herl.
And just bacause you are attracted to her that way...doesn't make her that way. You are probably reading into things far too much.
If all else fails go get counseling.... but be a daughter not her lover.
2007-06-15 12:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, let's start with the stuff you already know. It's incest. It's unethical, it's illegal. It's real.
The logical place to start is by finding someone that you can trust who you can talk to. The Internet is probably not a good place to go.
The fact that you are attracted to her really complicates things.
I really don't know where else to go with that without more information, like your age and whether there are other people in the household.
2007-06-15 12:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are adopted or not, she is your mother and it is wrong and against the law for an adult to have sex with a minor child. Your mother could lose custody of you and go to jail, be labeled a sex offended for life, so on and so on. She should know better. Give me her number so I can call her and give her a piece of my mind. You will be scared for life, don't go through with this and seek help!!!
2007-06-15 14:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After swallowing back a little vomit that came up in the back of my throat, I finished reading your dilemma. She not your biological mother and you should have said so in the original question. That being said,..its not uncommon for one to have sexual feelings for the one that takes care of us. However, your mother is an adult and she should know better. Besides the legal implications, it is immoral as well.
2007-06-15 12:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by kajun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult someone you trust and know that will help you in this situation because you shld not be put in this sitaution specially by your mother because its a form of abuse and its worryingly dangerous. Perhaps your local school may give you help. Im sure there are local advice for teenagers like connextions etc that can help
2007-06-15 12:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, wow! I have heard about people like this. I think you need to leave before things get worse. Just leave the situation. Don't try and pursue it. Don't try to read into it. Don't even think about it.
Yes it is wrong. Very wrong. Especially with her making obvious moves on you.
Please get some professional help through the school, ..or somewhere.
please, don't make this world any crazier.
Just get some help.
2007-06-15 12:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by kari79 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are both disgusting and ridiculous. She's your mum, whether you're adopted or not.
Find a new place to live, get out asap. If your "mother" is making moves on you, she is very disturbed indeed.
2007-06-15 18:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the Oedipus Complex... It'll probably pass. It depends on your age too. But your mom shouldn't be coming on to you regardless. That needs to stop.
If your attraction, or especially if her attraction persists, seek medical/mental help.
2007-06-15 12:12:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋