there is a new girl at my bf's job and he is coming everyday with a different story of things that she do and she is teaching him new words in english and all that, is there a reason for me to be jealous??
2007-06-15 12:01:20 · 4 answers · asked by D' Beche 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for your words.
2007-06-15 12:46:07 · update #1
I can see how you would be jealous. that's understandable. but also that he is talking to you about her is good. if he cheated, or was thinking about it he probably wouldn't say anything about her at all. be involved with his life and his friends. that way there aren't secrets. have you asked him if you should be jealous? has he ever given you reason not to trust him? if not, then you are probably being insecure and need to trust in him.
be happy for him in his new friendship and if you want to be extra sure try dropping little hints. like if he takes a lunch pack it for him and leave a little love note, just to show him you love him and also to keep his mind on you. added bonus is that his friend will probably notice and not want to move in on a man who is taken. but most importantly talk to him, chances are he will put your mind at ease
2007-06-15 12:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by asyle 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf had the same situation with a new girl at my work, she got jealous and drove me away from her and i ended up cheating on her with the new girl from work. Dont get jealous, just make him want to be at home more than at work.
2007-06-15 19:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Flammen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. They could just be friends. If he comes home smelling of her perfume, with hickeys on his neck, or he starts avoiding you, then you should worry.
2007-06-15 19:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None whatsoever. Trust him until you find out different.
2007-06-15 19:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋