why do girls like assholes? has this something to do with the age of the girl, or does it change with time?

Answer 1

cause they think they can change them and its a challenge.

Answer 2

My girl-friends tell me that they're just having fun and eventually they'll settle down with a nicer guy later when they're done with college and stuff. So yeah, I think it has to do what you want at what age you are. I'm sure this wouldn't apply for all girls. I'm sure that they are girls out there who prefer sweet and kind guys all around. I think my friend have a point since many guys I know used to hang out with girls who were considered sluts, but married nice, sweet, and wholesome girls when they wanted a family. I'm sure there are similiarities between the two. I'm sure those girls just want to have a challenge and fun. Hope this helps and didn't sound too negative. Remember, not all girls like assholes.

Answer 3

They will grow out if it. It's just a stage of life. Usually at the teenage years.

Women really want a nice guy who will be able to take care of them and provde a good life for her and their family.

Assholes will end up in jail and beating the crap outta the girl.

Then again, some girls are assholes so they go hand and hand. If the girl wants a jerk, let her go. It just tells you something about her.

Answer 4

it's an age thing, and an insecurity thing. girls like assholes when they're young because they are testing their self-worth. if they can get that jerk who is really mean to suzy, then that means i'm better than suzy. fortunatly for girls and guys, women grow out of this phase once they have established their self-worth and no longer enjoy being treated like crap. this doesn't happen for some women until later in life, but for some it happens around age 22ish, once they're out of college. good luck. try and find a girl that is confident, then they don't want jerks for bfs.

Answer 5

its not that girls like assholes..not every girl does. The thing is that guys change alot..at the beginning they are sweethearts but then turn out to be assholes.

Answer 6

Not all women want to be with jerks. The ones who do end up in relationships with ******* most likely grew up with an abusive male, whether it be a father, guardian or brother. To them, it's what they consider normal, so they'll date men like this because it's familiar to them. Just continue to be the good guy that you are and eventually a woman will come along who appreciates you for the morals and beliefs that you have.

Answer 7

Depends on the girl, but keep in mind a girl that wants an a**hole isn't worth messing with. They have a low self esteem and think that's the best they can do. Move on to a healthy girl who knows she's worth having.... without being full of her self. :)

Answer 8

Because a bad boy will always disappoint so when it happens, it's not that disappointing or unexpected. Plus, some feel like they can change him. Me, I like the guy next door type or good guys, more of a challenge and unpredictable. =)

Answer 9

will I am 25 and i still see that in many girls. so do what i did. start flirting with older ladies 30-35, and the game is better, cause they are honest. and most of the time they wanna sleep with you not vice versa. ohhh rrrrright

Answer 10

It's true, we like a challenge. If we can walk all over a guy we lose interest immediately. I'm 30 and I still haven't outgrown loving "bad boys".

Answer 11

I think for the most part, we outgrow the "wanting an asshole" stage of our lives.