My dad's job requires him to go overseas and right now he is currently working in China. I never call him in the morning but I decided I would today and it was about 5:00-6:00 a.m. his time. I called the hotel he was staying at, she sent me through, it rang for awhile then a lady picked up the phone and said something in Chinese. So I said, well must be a mishap with the frontdesk calling the wrong room. Then I call his cellphone about 30 mins later and again a lady picks up speaking in Chinese.
Am I being paranoid or is it possible he is cheating? I've been thinking maybe he checked out or got a new cellphone but I just recently talked to him yesterday at the same number...
I didn't tell my mom anything because she would just freak out, what should I do?
Thanks
2007-06-15 11:34:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't want to ruin fathers day.
2007-06-15 11:38:22 · update #1
I did think it could also be an employee, but it was 5 o'clock in the morning... he's usually not at work till 10-11 am.
2007-06-15 11:45:48 · update #2
I seriously think you should not say anything to your mom.
But I do think you should tell your dad you tried to reach him at the hotel and on the cell phone and both times a chinese female answered............and see what he says.
2007-06-15 11:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the answer thqt expresses that we all do bad things. This is so true, we are all sinners and continue to do bad and selfish things. This does not make the hurt go away, and simply saying that he should be forgiven does not make your heart gush with forgiveness. Yet the truth is, you have every right to be angry and you have every right to withhold forgiveness as the world sees it. I mean, it is not enough that your Dad cheated on your Mom... you also feel cheated, right? Justified anger and justified hurt can be as bad as unjustified hurt and anger, maybe even worse because there is no trigger mechanism that would signal you to know when , "enough is enough." Does this make sense? Truth is forgiveness is such a blessing to the one being forgiven and to the one doing the forgiving. Jesus said in what we call "The Lord's Prayer, (12) And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. (13) And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. Do you see the blessings in this prayer, or at least the standard for forgving and forgiveness. That is, we are asking God to forgive us in the same way that we forgive. So in a word, by withholding forgiveness, it is driving you crazy, "figuratively." (Your not going crazy....) Since I don't know, here are a couple of questions that would be good to know. What is the condition of your Dad right now..., still in the affair? Seeking forgiveness from you/ from Mom? Still in Sin? How is you Mom... bitter? Forgiving? Note: this information may also be helpful for you Mom. Bitterness only festers and grows. It is the devils stronghold..., it is gripping. Prayer and forgiveness releases this stronghold. I pray this helps, it is a heart condition. It is amazing how one persons sin always spills over and causes so much havoc. True heart felt forgiveness through Christ is the only cure. A prayer has been sent ahead for you, your Mom and your Dad. Blessings! God cares!!!
2016-05-21 04:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by josefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a possibility, but stay out of it. You do not want to be the cause of your parents divorce.
Just keep things to yourself for now, and act normal. It could have been anyone on the phone, and it's none of your business who it was.
If your dad was having an affair, I think he would have been more careful who picked up the phone, don't you?
2007-06-15 11:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's over seas this is what happens and also it's how they handle the phone calls, I know this first hand, daughters ex boy friend was in South Korea in the Army, the same thing happens there, it's ok, nothing to worry about.
2007-06-15 11:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that he is cheating and your mom definatly needs to know about it. if you dont want to ruin fathers day or anything which is perfectly undestandable wait a few day until after and then tell your mom. she deserves to at least know what you know. it might not even be what you think you never know but cheating is serious business so give your mom a heads up and tell her what happened and let her take it from there.
2007-06-15 12:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard topic to talk to your father about but before you go accusing him of things and telling you mother, ask him first. Talk to him and let him know that another woman answered his phone and his room phone.
2007-06-15 11:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ronnie Weasley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is kind of hard. if you told your mom it could ruin there relationship. so i wouldn't tell her. call your dad again and ask if he is there. it is his business what he does, and if he really loves your mom and you he wouldn't do that. you
shouldn't worry that much. maybe you can write him a letter and tell him you tried calling him and a girl answered and so you just hung up. that will get him thinking! don't worry about it. k
2007-06-15 11:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by ginnyjade11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you called and a lady answered. Ask him who it was , I would ask for sure.....It was probably just a worker or someone , just ask
2007-06-15 12:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him at 10:01 and ask him directly.
2007-06-15 11:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt get worried it could be an emploee or something but if something happens i would tell some1
2007-06-15 11:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by inyourspace8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋