I always here these deeply romantic stories about how women cry waterfalls when they are proposed to but I didn't feel the urge to cry - is this bad?
2007-06-15 11:17:37 · 25 answers · asked by ama8236 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Crying or not is no big deal. I didn't cry when my beloved proposed, nor did I cry at our wedding. My sister-in-law couldn't stop crying at either. Both of us are delighted with the men we married and the lives we've made with them. That's the only important part.
Crying is really no indication one way or the other of how the marriage is going to be.
2007-06-15 12:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by gileswench 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't cry - at the time of his 'proposal,' we'd been dating for 5 years, I'd had a promise ring for 2 1/2 years, and we already had our wedding date, dj, hall and photographer set - so the proposal and presentation of my engagement ring were not surprises - that didn't make things any less special or beautiful - I will remember the night he actually proposed forever!
Note: I didn't cry at my wedding either - I've seen some people bawl and some faint - I was just too happy!
2007-06-15 14:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by DSL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope!
When my fiance proposed, I teared up and a few tears fell, but I did not cry waterfalls.
I have since then, only because of hearing a song or something my fiance said. I'm an old softie and romantic so I was kind of surprised I didn't cry like crazy when he asked me. Though when I look back on it, I DO cry.
Go figure, eh? :)
2007-06-16 00:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance proposed to me in Feb. of this year. I didn't cry at all. I thought i would be crying all over the place. But that doesn't mean I love him any less because i didn't cry. Girl it's o.k. Beside i get marry in July of this year. So no it is not a bad thing.
2007-06-15 11:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by calinahart 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women cry about that besides moments when they cry are the ones where they are totally suprised. Its not bad that you didnt cry most women scream and shout for joy. I guess some women are just more romantic than others.
2007-06-15 11:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with not crying at all! I didn't either and I know of plenty of women who didn't either!
I only cry when I'm mad or sad, so it was good that I didn't cry when he proposed! He was however, a little disappointed when I didn't cry for our wedding! But who wants puffy eyes in their wedding photos!
Congrats and good luck! And there is nothing wrong with you!
2007-06-15 15:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
A proposal shouldn't be a surprise. Maybe the timing of the proposal.
You know what commercial I truly HATE?? The American Express one where the guy goes to buy his fiancee a ring, and he can't, so she suggests American Express (and he has that wimpy "I'm sorry" shot). Grrrrrrr!
There is NO WAY a guy doesn't plan ahead to buy a ring or pop the question.
And if he DIDN'T plan ahead - WHY would you marry someone like that?
2007-06-15 11:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's not bad! I seriously doubt I'll cry when my bf proposes. It doesn't mean you love him any less or that you're any less excited than girls who do cry. I don't cry at weddings, either, but that's not a bad thing!
2007-06-18 03:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! I didn't cry either- I was way too happy and excited for tears! I wouldn't worry unless you are already questioning if he's the guy for you for other reasons. Everyone shows their emotions in different ways.
2007-06-15 11:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, CONGRATS!!! I didn't cry when my husband proposed, it's not a bad thing....!!! I was more shocked by the surprise of it and how he asked, I was more in tune to the moment and what he was saying! Don't worry, it is not bad!
2007-06-15 11:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jellybean had her little bean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋