how to tell a guy....?

Question

this guy cameron is constantly following me around and it bothers me because when i flirt with other boys he buds into the conversation and practically ruins it. i am going to a party and he was invited how do i try to avoid him follwoing me around?

Answer 1

ditch him mabe he'll get the message

Answer 2

wow. It sounds like he really has a thing for you. I would try nicely asking him why he is following you around and tell him that it is getting annoying/creepy. This has happened to me a couple of times and I tell my friends to make sure they are around me so they can kinda keep those certain people away from me. But dont let him ruin the party for you!!!

Answer 3

lmao. the only reason i say that is because the same thing happened to me, he kept following me and everyone was likt tell him to stop but after a night of thinking it over i came up with two things:

one) confront him, let him know that you just wan tot be friends and nothing more. it might sound mean but what else are you going to do...let him know that it botthers you a little bit when he buds into your conversation, it is "alright" sometimes but not 24-7
two) give him a chance and ask him out...well for me asked me out which was part of the reason i took a night to think about it. i said yes and i am so happy i did he is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me and i love him very much.

you never know. :D
hope i can help,
christina♥

Answer 4

He just wants your attention and for no one else to have it. I say go to this party lookin fly as hell, smelling good, and ready for a good time. when he approaches you keep it positive then say "nice talkin to you" or something like it to signal that you are done talking to him. If he follows you around flirtingly tell him to stop being such a stalker. Then if he continues give him the real serious "hey it was cute at first but now it's just annoying so stop!"... that should work

Answer 5

All you can do is just tell him that you don't like him following you around wherever you go...'coz face it, I could tell you a lot of ways to let him avoid from following you but if he really wants to follow you...HE WILL REALLY FOLLOW YOU no matter whats in the way especially if he knows that your kinda cool with it 'coz you didn't say nothin to him. If I were you, just tell him that your really bothered and do it in a nice way. I'm sure he'll understand!

Answer 6

Tell him to quit bothering you! Trust me! I've been down that road and felt bad to tell him and he ended almost RUINING the BEST thing that happened to me. Of course it's over now but thats besides the point. the point is, I was too afraid to tell him to back off and when he told this guy that i REALLY liked that he was my boyfirend and to back off, I flipped out and told him to leave me the f*** alone. He hasn't talken to me in a while. Seriously tell him now before he ruins everything.
-♥-

Answer 7

Describe to him what legal actions you plan to take against him if he keeps stalking you.

"Restraining Order" is should get him to wise up. If you're in school, tell the teachers/councilors so they can assist if it becomes a problem.

Answer 8

Stop avoiding him and tell him how you feel about how he acts, a lot of problems get worse because of lack of communication.Tell him the truth.

Answer 9

Tell him he's a nice guy, but you're not interested in a relationship right now. If he doesn't listen, tell him again. He probably likes you but if you don't like him you should let him down gently.

Answer 10

Next time turn around and 'right in his face' look him right in the eye and say (slowly) STOP FOLLOWING ME!
If he doesn't get the hint he must be retarded.
Good luck!

Answer 11

Tell him he has offensive body odor and horribly bad breath. Tell him he will need to spend a minimum of a week in the hospital in intensive care to rid himself of all this extremely intense malodor. .