I know it's not fair and accurate for someone to judge a person whether he/she a virgin just by his/her behaviour,mannerism, hobbies etc, but is it possible for someone to spot if you are a virgin?
P.S: I already know being shy when sex is mentioned is one of the signs... (though this isn't accurate)
And please don't tell about about physical signs, I'm not asking for that.
Thank you very much for reading and answering my question!
2007-06-15 10:16:46 · 18 answers · asked by BABAY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is absolutely nobody else's business if you are a virgin or not! Be yourself. You have a name, a place in this world, and hopefully an ambition that goes beyond this question. Enjoy life. You'll know what to do with your virginity when the time comes. It isn't to be wasted on someone unworthy of you and your time. Make it special.
2007-06-15 10:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am in my late twenties and am still a virgin. I think that most people would dislike being a virgin and usually you hear people boasting about loosing their virginity at a young age. It's kind of a trophy I guess. Just image the opposite...having to be addicted to porn. This is something that I have had to deal with and now I am down to non-sexual images of nude women (which is pretty mainstream).
Now to answer your question. The proverbial shaky hand, the obvious nervous speech, and ever sinful wandering eye are symptoms that I have to deal with on a daily basis. Is this a major turn off?
2007-06-16 13:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be some stereotypes and if you applied them you would probably be right more than 50% of the time.
So if a person were to "judge" another person as a virgin, as you said...are you saying that would be a negative thought?
2007-06-15 17:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are no signs. Even being shy when sex is mentioned is an indicator of absolutely nothing. There's no way you can tell.
2007-06-15 17:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally no, unless (as you said) a sexual conversation comes up and you have nothing to share or experiences to relate. Otherwise, people can't pick a virgin out of a crowd...however someone who is promiscious, and open about it, is usually easy to tag.
2007-06-15 17:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there is not at all don't worry about it if that's what you are worrying about the only way peeps will know is if you tell them
2007-06-15 17:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Pisces_Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not possible. SOme ppl i thought would be total virgins were'nt, and those that were i thought they were'nt.
2007-06-15 17:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup.......awkward, shy, socially inept, laughs at most things.....oh yeah, in company of opposite sex, they go red in the face or just jerk.
2007-06-15 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah u kinda tell by there manners
and behaviours
i can tell and im usually right!
2007-06-15 17:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Leila 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not really they can only guess and most of the time its wrong
2007-06-15 17:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jessi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋