I am a 34yo man. Have been dating a beautiful 46yo woman, as I like elegant mature ladies in general. I feel we are both romatic and have much to talk about. She is wonderful in bed.
There is also her beautiful 22yo daughter. Being from a different generation and hanging around the corporate world, I have no idea what a 22yo is interested in. However, she is very kind and she put the moves on me. I must say, she too is not too bad in bed.
I want a child and the daughter is significanlty more interested than the mother. However I can see that I could have a much healthier relationship with the mother.
This is the weirdest situation and I know some may feel I shouldn't have sampled both cookie jars. But times are modern and even these women know that having sex doesn't commit you to a serious relationship. Anyway, which one should I go with ?????
2007-06-15 09:54:03 · 16 answers · asked by Marek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, you crossed the line and you should back out gracefully before someone gets hurt. Like you. Their bond is stronger than you and even if the truth comes out, you will be left out in the cold.
Peace
2007-06-15 10:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by littlecraps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that you have got yourself into a right pickle.
As a 34 year old male you should be ashamed of yourself for taking both the cookies.
I presume neither mum or daughter know about each other, why do I presume this because if they did then you would have no reason to post such a question.
If or should I say when they find out about each other then you will be at the end of your no win situation,you will be dropped like a stone and you will end up with just jaded memories,a good story to tell in the pub and an even more guilty complex that I'm sure you already have.
You to be blunt will probably be responsible for the break of there relationship as well as your own,yes blood is thicker then water but in the daughters eyes her mother would have broken the cardinal sin and there will be massif fall out.
If indeed you did pick one over the other then again you would be wrong,can you imagine Christmas day,could you imagine the pressure you will place yourself under! If lets say you picked mum then I am sure the daughter will do everything in her power to make it go wrong and visa versa.
Wake up to yourself mate and walk away from them both because its only a matter of time before they both walk out on you and probably each other!
Grow up and think about things before you make school boy errors like this one!
good luck
2007-06-15 10:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Matt K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an undesirable project for you, as a results of fact interior the warmth of the 2nd, neither female is being purpose or reasonable, and you're caught interior the midsection, the two certainly one of them questioning you're on the different individual's side because you are attempting to communicate some reason into them! those circumstances are so no longer elementary as a intermediary. in case you think of that they had be up for it, see a counselor or mediator. Or, in case you think of you ought to look after it your self, try your hand at slightly mediation. set up the floor rules: one individual speaks at a time, and anybody might desire to be respectful yet honest approximately how they experience. you're there to maintain the peace and likewise to help the communicate alongside via making strategies. whilst anybody has spoken their piece with regards to the region, then you definately attempt to detect the thank you to remedy the subject so as that anybody gets slightly and provides slightly. you're able to do a handwritten contract, signed via the two events, that they'll uphold the words. this is a particularly easy technique yet helps take the emotion and adrenaline and the mean words out of the conflict and gets to the middle of issues.
2016-10-09 07:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a tangled web we weave!
This has all the the makings of a time bomb.
How can you choose either of them knowing
that the daughter knows about you & her Mom.
"Modern times" or not,
do yourself and these two women a favor and
move on to a new, and less volatile relationship.
You have stepped over the line of propriety by
sleeping with both of them. None of you will ever
be able to fully trust each other.
2007-06-15 10:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well forgetting the fact u keeping it in the family which is doggy to say the least. do they know you have slept with each other ? because if they dont and u choose one and the other tells what u been upto u could lose both, u sound like u have more in common with the mother so i would say go with the one u can get on with the best and well how much are kids a factor just decide what u want and quickly or u could end up with none
2007-06-15 10:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to write this but it is this type of mentality that causes the spread of ST D's. "But times are modern and even those women know that having sex doesn't com mitt you to a serious relationship" Sex wasn't meant to be done out of lust it was meant to be shared between two individuals who love each other and want to express their love.
You are old enough to know what is right or wrong. I am no one to tell you how to live your life. But I personally think the daughter is disgrace for making a move on you. She not only disrespected herself, she disrespected her mother. That is not right. You could never trust the daughter. If you decided to have a relationship with her, what makes you think she won't make a move on your younger brother?
2007-06-15 09:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by voiceofanangell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a benefit of MARRIAGE only!! My suggestion since you and they have created a mess without knowing it.. and to leave both alone and start over, and find ONE person who can be yours! If you stay with either, you at this point will not only destroy your relationship with the other, be in a freaky place where u have slept with both of these women and they will know it, but u will also jeopardize THEIR relationship as mom and daughter, thereby making enemies of them both when they come to their senses and realize the seriousness of whats going on. Hey, not preaching to you, just laying out the facts. You dont sleep around, for lots of reasons, and most importantly, SEX is an intimate place you share with your wife/husband....... Leave them both alone and move on.. save face, and let them save their relationship as mom and daughter!!
2007-06-15 09:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were dating the mother first then you never should have slept with the daughter. You sound like a pig and I am sure that I speak for a lot of women.
2007-06-15 09:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have rocks in your head?
None- RUN and find someone else your own age. This is not a good situation for you never mind that you will probably destroy their relationship.
2007-06-15 09:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sick twisted man having sex with both mother and daughter go to a mental hospital you poor old man
2007-06-15 09:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋