How do I solve this boyfriend sex crisis?

Question

Me and my boyfriend are both 16 so yes we have had sex before. But my ex wants me back now he dumped me because I woulddn' do it with him so now that he sees me doing it with omeone else he figures I must be ready and wants to get back together. I know I shouldn't but I still really love him a lot. How do i solve this boyfriend sex crisis?

Answer 1

stop having sex with every one your going to come down with a disease

Answer 2

Think about what you just said. You want to get back with a guy who is interested in you only because you are sexually active.

How would you feel if a guy you were dating and really liked, dumped you to go have sex with an ex?

Treat people as you'd like to be treated...life isn't all about sex. If you don't really dig the guy you're with, why are you dating him? You're not even old enough for the responsibilities sex can bring...

Sex not occur before:
1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur
2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur
3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)
4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them
5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male)
6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male)
7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person
Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex.

Answer 3

If he wants to get back together with you just so you guys can have sex, this isn't a healthy relationship no matter how much you love him. Run in the opposite direction- not neccessarily into the arms of your current boyfriend, but to a place where you can think long and hard about why you are having sex right now and whether or not you are really ready to continue engaging in this activity.

Best,
MC

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Answer 4

Obviously don’t go back to your ex. He didn’t care enough about you to wait until you were ready and now that you are he just wants sex. He’d probably sleep with you a couple of times and then just dump you again. I know you still have feelings for him but try to look past your feelings so you can see him for who he really is. In time you’ll get over him and realize what a loser he is, so for now just try to stay away from him and have some respect for yourself. Good luck.

Answer 5

With your last, I'd say it was both of your fault. He didn't have to dump you and could've waited just a little longer (besides, you're only 16, you have another 2 or 3 years until sex must get way better), and why didn't you let him have sex with you?

And now you're doing it with this other guy? You didn't wanna do it with your ex yet you did with this new guy?


Sounds to me like you weren't that sexually interested in your ex.

Answer 6

First of all, you say you still love him but what makes you think he loves you?
He dumped you because you wouldn't put out and now he wants you back just to do it..not because loves you! Think about it!!
He never cared about you in the first place! He dumped you for all the wrong reasons and now you're thinking of giving him that type of satisfaction? Don't be a slu*
Have higher standards than that and respect your current boyfriend and the relationship you have with him.

Answer 7

Oh my gods! How shallow of you! You'd dump the guy you're with because of an ex-boyfriend??? Think about that genuis! You're having sex with your current boyfriend and just becuase an ex wants you back you're ready to jump? How much of a dog are you for him to snap his fingers and for you to jump thru the hoop?

Gods why don't you grow up! Accept responsibility for being an adult not for being a little plaything at the whim of someone else! You don't deserve any man at this point.

Answer 8

Well, first of all, you shouldn't have dated this new boyfriend if you are still in love with your old boyfriend. You are what we call "relationship by convenience". You go to anyone who is willing. You don't follow your heart. Instead, you follow your groin.
What you need to do is follow your heart. You obviously don't love your new boyfriend to even think about having sex with your old boyfriend.
Go back to your old boyfriend. Drop the new boyfriend. He'll thank you for it later. You're just playing him for a fool right now.

Answer 9

At 16, you don't know what "love" is, at this point in your life it is more like "puppy love!"

Anouther thing your with a guy that you have been intement with so don't deminish yourself just for anouther BOY! thats all they want! That is why he wants you back! If you really care for this "new" guy don't dump him just to sleep around your 16 and trust me you cant handle the concequences of having sex.

Answer 10

with the aid of fact a committed dating nevertheless isn't everywhere close to as trusting and committed as being married to the guy. the two one in all you is unfastened to stroll away day after today. Do you have any thought how plenty a woman's love for a guy will strengthen while she starts off to call him her husband (particularly of her boyfriend)?

Answer 11

By using that brain of yours and stay away from him. Why would you want to be with someone who dumped you because you weren't ready for sex? Ask yourself that, and answer it because I am curious about that. This guy doesn't care about you, just what you have to offer. Be with someone who will love you for you and not sex.