ok well my best friend (guy)..i might go to his house tomorrow and we might makeout.
he has madeout with his previous girlfriends, but with my previous boyfriends i have chosen not to. im in grade nine and i want to makeout with him. i like him so much but, i dont know how...
so my questions are :
how do i makeout?
where should i put my hands?
2007-06-15 09:32:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well here's the thing, You're probablly going to get pregnant by your senior year anyways, so don't worry about where you're putting your hands. But make sure you brush your teeth right before.
2007-06-15 09:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I'm afraid there is only one way of doing this and it is to do what feels natural at the time,no two people are the same, there is no right way to touch or hold a person as everybody differs.
The only thing you have control of is how far you take things, If I were you I would invite him to your house so you can set the mood with light(candles) smell and music,these things do help!! you will also have the benefit of being in a familiar secure place, try and make it special for the both of you,he has made out before but those relationships didn't work out so you have the upper hand and you could possably be the one to blow his mind! One thing you should be awear of that most boys of his age will not have had allot of experience and will go at it like a bull in a china shop!(its just how it is) make sure your not being used and above all relax and have good honest SAFE fun,as for the hands well that will become clear!.....Enjoy
2007-06-15 16:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Matt K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANSWER: You made good choices in the past, why risk a bad choice now. CHOOSE not to "makeout". You are in ninth grade - don't try to rush adulthood. It will come soon enough.
If he's so free to "makeout" with others - you should really evaluate if this is what you really want - to be another on is list.
Don't cheapen yourself - choose to wait until the Right Time (and the right person) comes !!
2007-06-15 16:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok its pretty simple...u r what mayb 14 ..hmmm lets see when i was 14 i thought u got pregnant by kissing ..so im gonna be a lil old school with this answer....so really, if ur asking how to make out to complete strangers ..u r not ready to do it....until u know what making out leads to and i just might as well let u know making out leads him to getting into ur britches and then u gettin knocked up or having something that ajax doesnt take off ..and he will run and deny any of it....and also ur name will be slandered all over ur school ...think of the word whore..tramp..slut......so really is makin out with a guy u just like worth it...i think u should really wait for the right guy to come around...i know all the other boys and girls are doin it but do u have too...if u have made it this far ..without doin this stuff ....
2007-06-15 16:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by lil country gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making out is a private business... you should only be doing it with someone you feel comfortable with... someone who you can tell honestly that you have no idea what to do.
You want to make out with someone who will teach you.. not force you or expect you too..
You didn't ask for it, but here is my opinion.. you shouldn't be making out with this guy until the relationship matures to a level that you can comfortable discuss what you are feeling.
That will likely not happen between now and tomorrow night.
Good Luck
2007-06-15 16:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your feelings for him should help you. hold his hands and concentrate of the skin to skin feeling. then look him straight in the eyes and kiss him lightly on the lips. because he has made out before, he should help you. your hands could stay with his hands or they could go on the neck or head, what ever feels right at the time. but if he goes to far break it off. dont worry about hurting him. i remember the first time i made out and it is not hard because he had already done it. good luck i hope this helped!
2007-06-15 16:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by starsofnokomis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ruin a good thing? Are you just going to be another 'girl he made out with?' This doesn't sound like a good start for you. You've chosen more self restraint then him and now you want to lose it. Why not save your self for the perfect guy?
2007-06-15 16:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mary L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he has made out before then he will be able to guide you. I know that it's not what you want to hear, but if you just relax and let things happen naturally it will all work out. I mean, the very first people to ever make out didn't have a manual to follow. You'll be just fine. Just remember that you are in control and you decide how far you want to go.
2007-06-15 16:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hi,
it sounds like you are not comfortable with what you say you want to do. don't go into something unprepared because it could lead to something more and maybe somethings you do not want to do. if you have to ask where to put you hands or how to do it then you are not where you think you should be in the relationship with this guy,
2007-06-15 16:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you should just 'go with the flow' and see where that takes you. If you plan it out too much you'll be almost robotic and you won't be able to experience as much. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with!
2007-06-15 16:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by ohmygod459 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋