Let's say you want to cry for something that has to do with the opposite sex but you hold the tears back because you think it's dumb reason to cry. However, if you're all alone, should you just go ahead and release your tears? I feel like since I'm almost a man I shouldn't be crying over a girl and that would be wussy so I haven't, but I read somewhere that crying in any human releases toxins and one will usually feel better afterwards. I haven't cried yet, I'm just thinking about it. I'm all by myself where no one would see me. I've never been an emo (yes I know what they are), but I feel like if I cry I'll be acting like one.
2007-06-15 09:09:51 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is my sappiest question ever. I would only ask this online since no one here really knows me.
2007-06-15 09:11:06 · update #1
This is why I asked. Mainly, I'm being ignored by someone I care about and I thought she liked me back. This happens all the time and it's mainly a collective, over-the years thing. This would be my first time crying over something like this.
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2007-06-15 09:14:38 · update #2
Surely, you know better, than what society have taught you (I mean, boys are always told "don't cry"). I think that it's bad not to be able to stay in tune with emotions. So, go ahead, cry, laugh, whatever, and do not give a crap about what others will think of you. I presume, you don't want to be one of those jerks, who are so flat emotionally you'd think they are dead already! :)
2007-06-15 09:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be doing yourself a big favor making sure you're alone, but when you feel like crying you should go ahead and do so. Unreleased intense emotions aren't healthy, and they increase the possibility that you'll engage in destructive behavior. Good question, by the way.
2007-06-15 16:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you need to cry let it out , there is noting wrong with crying. I don't know where it is said that men don't cry, men cry at least real men do. I think any girl should be proud to have you in there life,stay strong you will find the person who will care about you. Good luck.
2007-06-15 22:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gifty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy if u dont go ahead and cry.........aint nothin wrong with cryin......i wish a man would cry ova me.........lol, but really go ahead and release your feelings, you'll feel better after. Look u can email me too:shardae_richardson@yahoo.com
2007-06-15 16:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead n cry boy! its sweet wen a guy cry ova a gurl my ex cried over me n it made me feel like i made a big mistake,,,
2007-06-15 16:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NOTHING wrong with showing your emotions/feelings. Go ahead and have a sob...you will feel better for it.
2007-06-15 16:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by swell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unleash the flood gates dude, sometimes you've just got to.
2007-06-15 16:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Soap Box Preacher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because you will feel better afterwards, i promise
2007-06-15 16:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by that redheaded chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋