If a girl can talk to you about fishing, hunting, travelling, politics, camping, sports, and other supposedly male topics, is it sexy or intimidating? Is she girlfriend or just friend material?
2007-06-15 09:07:43 · 20 answers · asked by vinsa1981 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An intelligent woman is very sexy, but an insecure man will not think so.
2007-06-15 09:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given the two choices, sexy or intimidating, I would have to say it is sexy. If the girl (woman) you are talking to is not your wife or girlfriend already and you enjoy intelligent conversation, then it should be very easy to talk about any topic. Girls that can talk with confidence about supposedly male topics should not be feared or put into any catagory. Intelligence is not gender specific. I've met stupid men and stupid women and I know many very smart men and smart women. I think the problem is more about feeling intimidated by someone smarter than you of the opposite sex. As a man, I enjoy doing male oriented activities with my male friends because we relate as men. On the other hand, I get a great deal of pleasure when my girlfriend wants to join me when I go fishing and camping or what ever. We relate to each other as a man and a woman who enjoy the same activities. If you are a man who is secure in your skin then you should see the woman you are having these conversations with as a potential girlfriend because she will understand why you like the respective activity. Just like she enjoys shopping with her girlfriends and doesn't want a man with her every time she goes shopping you will be able to enjoy your buddy time with out her having to be with you on every hunting or fishing trip.
2007-06-15 16:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Terry R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy. Heck yeah! You can leave the hunting/fishing but being able to have a good conversation with a girl is one of my greatest pleasures!
2007-06-15 16:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Neither. I think those are conversation topics only and wouldn't be a deciding factor in girlfriend/friend material. More like personality.
2007-06-15 16:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always good to be well rounded in various topics. You never know who you will come across and what might come up. Its good to be prepared. By the way, I would find it girl friend material.
2007-06-16 03:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nacho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a minute there, I though the first topic was "fisting". Fishing and fisting are like apples and oranges.
Because she like the same things you do, it means she's well rounded in numerous activities. Guys knit, girls fish.
She sounds like a keeper, not a ******, especially if she likes to do all of the dude things you enjoy.
2007-06-15 16:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I wouldn't go far as to call it sexy, but it probably means you will be able to have a deeper relationship, since you will have something to talk about. If you are too into it though, that can be unattractive.
2007-06-15 16:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by New Dog Owner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it at all intimidating and any guy who does it immature. Your interests are yours, no matter what they are. If they happen to be wht some consider traditional male topics, so what?? You'll appeal to to the guy who matters, the rest don't matter.
2007-06-15 16:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sexy that the person above me answered like he did. ;-) I feel confused about this sometimes too girl...but Captain S, makes a cool and intelligent point. (Captain S=Real Man) ;-)
2007-06-15 16:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are hot, then it is sexy.
if you are not, then it is not.
remember , its all about the vibe between two people, and what is hot to one guy is not to another...personally i have no interest in fishing, so it would not be sexy to me even if you were physically attractive
2007-06-15 16:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋