What are the top five things you look for in a person (when you are thinking fo dating). For me it is...
1. Their Faith (Whether or not they are Christians)
God calls us to be equally yoked so I could only be with another Christian in a romantic relationship.
2. Heart
A big heart is very important. I have to be with someone who is loving, kind, sweet, and a cuddler.
3. Brains
They don't have to be brillant but must be able to hold a conversation.
4. Integrity
I could never be with some one who is a theif, liar, or refuses to work. God calls us to be a good steward in all we do.
5. Looks
This is the least important thing. Looks are just temporary. Besides, everyone is beautiful in their own way. It may just be their laugh or their dimples but everyone has something beautiful about them.
2007-06-15 08:58:17 · 21 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. faith ( being a strong follower of Christ shows me they have values
2. ability to work and not complain
3. kindness (someone who is very nice,not afraid to show feelings,someone who doesn't really raise their voice and loves to hold me..
4. sense of humor and personality someone who is outgoing but at the same time faithful
5. looks they are not important but it helps like knight of god says your beautiful in your own way..
2007-06-15 16:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by thorpe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Looks. Physical attraction is what starts any kind of relationship. I'm not going to find any ugly guy and go oh he seems nice, I am in love. (Remember, what makes a person physically attractive varies person to person).
2. Self esteem. I don't want a guy who is totally into him, for example Spencer Pratt. But I don't want a guy who sits and whines that he is ugly and this is what is wrong with him, blah blah blah. I want him comfortable, but not in love, with himself.
3. Balance. I need a balance of everything. I don't want a guy who wants to go out or stay home ALL the time. I don't want completely funny or too serious. Everything needs to compliment one another. Not perfectly of course. I don't mind a guy acting dumb for laughs now and then, but if I want to debate, he better have good points and facts to back them up.
4. Kindess. My fiancee is the kindest guy ever. He greets everyone, strikes up conversations with strangers. He does whatever he can to help anyone. I absolutely love that because that is the complete opposite of me. I avoid eye contact with most of the world, haha.
5. He can't be controlling. I've been there, done that. Don't tell me I can't spend my hard earned money on $800 designer shoes. Don't tell me how to dress. Don't tell me I can't dye my hair a shade lighter if I want to. I want his opinion, I want his input, but I don't want him telling me what to do. He should know that if I sincerely find his points valid, I will agree with him and maybe not dye my hair. But he can't FORCE me to do that.
There's my input. =) I'm off work in 10 so have a great day!
2007-06-15 09:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Loyalty
2. Heart
3. Humor
4. Brains
5. Looks
2007-06-15 09:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Religious belifes
2. Heart
3. Affection
4. Integrity
5. Appearance
2007-06-15 09:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by popadoc80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I value my family the most and the fact that I have shelter and food to eat everyday. There armany things in life to value but i am not materialistic and I believe that the best thing to value is Life itself. I value my good health and the people that I truly love which are my family and some friends!! And Ofcourse I value the Lord that can help me in any situation!
2007-06-15 09:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Stefanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Similar goals/desires
2. Physical attraction
3. Emotional stability
4. IQ
5. Spending habits
2007-06-15 09:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by kami_morris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may have mentioned that I'm a widower.
#1 with my wife was her faith in Jesus (her #1 desire was to be with Jesus).
If I seek another woman to date:
1.Jesus has to be #1.Help serve the Lord Jesus.
2.Your right:
Her heart (your right).
3.integrity
4.someone I enjoy doing things with (fun to talk to).
5.I want her to be attractive (doesn't have to be a 10).
2007-06-15 10:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I agree to everything except your first point. God, it depends on his or her own beliefs, how they do keep faith with the higher power. God, god god, let us just call him ''higher power'' for a change. You have refered to ''god'' in almost all your points...(exaggeration i know, and sorry), but that comes later, and that comes deeper as you know the person, you learn more, what his or her faith is, and how he maintains all of your other points with this....this only once you know more of him or her deep inside.
But otherwise, i agree.
good thoughts...keep it up...
2007-06-15 09:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Equally yoked?
2007-06-15 09:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋