I was thinking of working out, but what else can I do for them to notice me/become attracted to me, ladies please help me in any way u can in my school they think latinos are cute but also want more girls to talk to me & etc, I like dis latina girl at my school.
2007-06-15 08:57:09 · 13 answers · asked by Orlando J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girl that I like is latina,she is the same age as me , & she comes to my hood once a week so that should help.
2007-06-15 09:11:25 · update #1
So, the most important thing is to talk with ladies, flirt with them in a good way,work out,get a summer job & get bling, see what they like & some girls will start to notice me?
2007-06-15 15:11:41 · update #2
1. Work out
2. Get a good summer job... Then you'll have some money, too. Girls can't deny they like a guy with money...haha
2007-06-15 09:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is the most important thing that gets girls to like you. Looks are the second most important, and brains are the third. So, if you're going for a 'makeover' for the summer start with all three areas.
1. Personality: Get to know some 'older' women (mom's friends?) and practice being charming to them. They love it when younger guys flirt with them...and if they're your mom's friends they should be pretty harmless. If they respond by laughing, flirting back, and telling your mom what a sweetheart you are...you're catching on. Also, learn to smile alot and say hi to everyone you pass, acting like they know you or want to know you. Feel comfortable with telling jokes or just teasing people about harmless things (i.e. something they said in class, speeding, plans for the weekend, etc.)
2. Looks: Work out & buff up. Get good advice on clothing that fits your body and is stylish without being pimp or gay. Have a good hairstylist give you advice and a modern 'look'. Make sure you have good hygiene and clean skin.
3. Brains: You don't need to work really hard on this...just know what's happening on the news, world and local...know the current movies (go see them) and 'specialize' in a specific area like computers or politics or a specific subject in school that you can just have the information on hand should the subject come up at some time/place. Use the information sparingly so you won't seem like a geek.
And for icing on the 'beefcake' get involved in one of the top 3 sports at school, that always ups your desireability with the girls. If you don't know what those are...[groan]...they are Football, Basketball and Baseball.
Good luck and have fun becoming HOT!
2007-06-15 16:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're on the right track by working out. But this is what you do. I wish I had known this in high school. Hang with a bunch of dudes who get the attention you want. That way you'll get the chance to talk to the very same girls they do; the ones YOU want. Secondly once the girls get to know you, flirt with them. Not in a way that will get you slapped but in a way that compiments them on how they look, what their wearing how they smell, etc. Then after some time( a week or two), pull away. Be as distant as possible without being cold and non-sociable. Women love attention and when you take it from them they start to wonder what it is they did to change your feelings for them. They'll start coming up to you to find out what's changed, even if they're not attracted to you physically because they miss what you were giving them. Good luck and use it WISELY, don't take advantage of the ladies man, be a gent.
2007-06-15 16:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by gandeman06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you're working out and getting a great tan, etc., you might also want to work on your social skills; for example, learn to be a good conversationalist, develop new interests, overcome any shyness you might have, read good books, and work on your personality. Always have a big smile and friendly appearance. The girls can't help but notice you if you look like the kind of guy they want to approach.
2007-06-15 16:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out at the beach if one is close. Get a summer job where you know alot of girls would hang out. Participate in an athletic sport for the summer. Become a lifeguard.
2007-06-15 16:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get confidence. A girl loves a man with confidence and who isnt afraid to go after what he wants. Make sure you keep a fresh hair cut and clothes and you should be good.
2007-06-15 16:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
working out is good.
but girls love boys to smell nice. try axe body spray, i love it!
try not to look too gangsta, girls need you to be a little serious.
what i think looks great on a guys is a colorful, fitted polo with some blue jeans(not too baggy).
i see your avatar has on a hat. that's good too.
when you meet or talk to a girl, give her nice, friendly smile. if you don't she'll feel intimidated.
good luck!
2007-06-15 16:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get or let you hair grow and get some bling on your fingers and neck don't for get about the gold tooth thing that is popin
2007-06-15 16:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by KILLER BEE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok. find out more about this girl you like, and be more of what she is looking for. if she likes you and everything works out, best of luck if you 2 get in a relationship!
2007-06-15 16:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working out can't hurt, but all you have to do is talk to them and be nice to them...then they will probably like you!
2007-06-15 15:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋