2007-06-15 07:59:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop giving it to him
2007-06-15 08:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult situation. I personally enjoy bringing the love of my life pleasure in this way.
Hmmm, sounds like an indian (India) name. Could be the smell of curry is too strong. Try cleaning up really good with soap and water. Maybe he just needs a clean workspace.
Maybe you're a little "heavy" and he can't breathe; try positions that afford better airflow.
If things are little jungle-like, try cleaning that up. Trim, shave, or wax. Many guys don't want to brush and floss when they're there for dessert.
Not trying to be mean - just making some realistic suggestions as to a possible cause.
2007-06-18 13:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you're comfortable with. If you don't like giving, don't give; no one can make you. If you like giving - then do it. It's not a barter. If oral is so important to you that you can't live without it - consider getting a new b/f, since this one isn't gonna start liking it all of a sudden. Everyone has things they are uncomfortable with. Good luck.
2007-06-15 15:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...stop giving him head. You have to give to get and clearly he doesn't see that. Do you like performing? Is it not that big of a deal for you that he doens't or is it something you deeply desire? He should be sensitive and supportive of that...otherwise you're giving to much in the bedroom...and likely throughout the relationship. Not fair to you.
2007-06-15 15:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by aladyalways525 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if there's something that can be done so he'll enjoy performing it on you more...stop doing for him if you feel it's unfair only one-way...or accept that it's just not his cup o' tea and he shouldn't feel obligated to do it just because you don't mind doing it.
2007-06-15 15:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the street works both ways and if he wants to keep getting it, hes going to have to start giving. You don't want a man anways who is always into recieving!
2007-06-15 15:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to give until you receive every once in a while. If he wants it bad enough, he'll come around.
2007-06-15 15:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by Karen W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him WHY? Is it a smell, taste... too much hair? Those things can be changed. Or if it's the 'idea' he doesnt' like, you shouldn't give it to him either.
2007-06-15 15:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't there some kind of tea they mentioned in Les Divorce that was supposed to make you, erm, taste better?
2007-06-15 15:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by dana_osmundson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It needs to be a give and take. It's only fair. If you don't live giving it to him then you better not if he's not giving it to you. Tell him off.
2007-06-15 15:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Me baby Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he doesn't like it, there are a million guys in the world who would be happy to, then show him some of those pervertive answers you got on here
2007-06-15 15:11:05 · answer #11 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋