well i am feeling down today because the girl that i love even though she does things that make me wonder if she likes me, has really peed me off. although she has not done anything or has not realised she has done anything. i have not spoke to her, in terms of a conversation for about a year. i think maybe because i am leaving school on wednesday and wont see her for another three mounths. i am scared of leaving her behind.
2007-06-15 07:08:21 · 18 answers · asked by The Master 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does she know you like her?
if not... talk to her about your feelings, girls usually feel the same as the male. they usually wait for the male to make the move. don't be afraid. if you really want her, go for it.
if you two really have a solid relationship between yourselves, leaving each other for 3 months would be hard yes but you would be determined to keep contact.
good luck!!
2007-06-15 07:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her and tell her how you feel !! It isn't always easy to do so. Write a letter that you have no intention of sending but, it will allow to express yourself without fear that it maybe criticized. Repeat this until you feel at ease with writing down your feelings. Then, have an out loud conversation with yourself. Practice what you want to say to her. Trust me, it helps. In addition,what have you got to lose. Better to know than not. Do not place any blame on her! The idea is to break the ice!!
2007-06-15 07:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her then you wouldn't put some silly sadness emotions of what she has done between you and her relationship. Think this over, do you really love her or is it just in your head that you want to love her so you won't be alone. If I were in your shoes I would move on from this girl, and do something successful in school or your job. I would find myself another girl that would make me happy instead of causing me to go into a depressed state. Find another girl man!
2007-06-15 07:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by francesca C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to upbeat music, and workout it will make you feel better. I'm kind of in the same situation. I know this girl that I like a lot and she just left for basic training until labor day but I'm just trying to keep myself busy and so I won't think about her that much, I know its hard, but trust me it will get better.
2007-06-15 07:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by BAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The end of the school term is always difficult for me in general. What makes it harder is that you won't be seeing her for three months, even if she pissed you off. When I'm down, I have to FORCE myself to get up and do something.
2007-06-15 07:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u scared if she loves enough than she wouln't do anything stupid but yeah when I feel down I just try to get out of it asap so that I don't ruin the rest of my day
2007-06-15 07:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,ask the girl out.Good Luck
2007-06-15 07:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a hot bubble bath to clear your head. Works wonders.
2007-06-15 07:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mike T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i listen to music when i'm feeling down or i write my boyfriend a love note that always cheers me up
2007-06-15 07:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i play the guitar then maybe mope around the house and cry and then i go on Y!A
2007-06-15 08:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋