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Ok this is a serious question. I hear so many people preach about sex is evil, and dirty. That masterbation is wrong. That oral sex is evil. Perhaps they aren't doing it right? Assume I am referring only to married couples. I know where you stand on pre-marital.

2007-06-15 06:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

Yeah but trust me, oral sex can totally lead to procreation. So how is that a sin? LOL

2007-06-15 07:08:50 · update #1

12 answers

Nothing wrong with oral sex, in fact I'd recommend it. ;)

2007-06-15 07:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

If any sort of sex is a sin then the human race would not exist. Christianity as a religion is 2000 years old, give or take. Christians think god created the world 10000 years ago,
(this is of course ignoring evolution and dinosaurs and all scientific evidence but whatever)
so if Christianity created marriage there was 8000 years of sinners (at the very least). So God gave man no choice but to sin to survive.
8000 years = a hell of a lot of blowjobs because they didnt know it was a sin lol. If you cant tell I aint a Christian - not saying its wrong though.

If you feel its ok and you both want to do it, then do it!!! better than going all the way and bringing a kid into the world that you werent ready for. Personally I love oral sex and anybody who says its evil or morally wrong must have very boring sex lives.

2007-06-15 14:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by futuretopgun101 5 · 0 1

Sex isn't dirty or immoral when it is done inside of marriage. God created sex for our pleasure, so as long as it is done within the boundaries of marriage, there is nothing wrong with going all the way. God doesn't want us to be stern creatures against any pleasure at all. God is the originator of joy. Sometimes we forget that God created pleasure. The problem is that since we have sin in this world, Satan has made a counterfeit for every wonderful thing God has given us. His counterfeit for pleasure is lust, and that is when sex becomes a sin. But as long as the couple is married, they should have fun and not hold back!

2007-06-15 14:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by musicalchik 4 · 2 2

What's wrong with talking about sex?.....oh..Oral sex. LOL

I have not researched the topic,from a biblical perspective,however, in the confinds of the bond of marriage,I personally would not consider it to be sin.

2007-06-15 14:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by bonsai bobby 7 · 0 0

Assuming you are speaking of married people, what they do behind closed doors is fine.

I am a christian and me and my hubby have one wild sex life. (sometimes it can be boring, I am not going to lie) but we know how to spice it up. And oral sex is definitely on the list!

2007-06-15 14:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by AJM 5 · 2 0

I believe that sex is something created for husbands and wives within the boundries of marriage.... and being said, I feel that as long as it is between the husband and wife alone, and they are both acceptable to it, then it is ok.... God knows our hearts, and we are to please our husband/wife not withholding our bodies from them (1 Corinthians 7:4 for one example).... I do not believe that masturbation with one another is wrong, nor do i believe that oral is wrong... as long as it is ok with both partners and in that boundary of marriage

2007-06-15 14:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by livinintheword † 6 · 1 0

The Bible makes no clear mention of oral sex at all.

Therefore, it is difficult to produce an official biblical position. Nevertheless, based on the information that follows oral sex is not sinful and that it is permissible only within the bonds of marriage between a husband and wife.

The book Song of Solomon is a love poem between a husband and wife. This book is seen in two senses: physical love and a description of God's love for His church. Either way, the book definitely encourages a husband and wife to enjoy the sexual pleasures of one another. It is in this beautiful book that two scriptures appear which may shed light on the issue of oral sex. Let's take a look.

* Song 2:3, "Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."
* Song 4:16, "Awake, O north wind, and come, wind of the south; make my garden breathe out fragrance. Let its spices be wafted abroad. May my beloved come into his garden and eat its choice fruits!”

Notice in Song 2:3 that it says, "...and his fruit was sweet to my taste." Obviously this involves very intimate experience. Tasting one another can have a wide variety of applications. It appears that this is a veiled way of alluding to oral sex. Furthermore, if we look at Song 7:7 we read, “I said, ‘I will climb the palm tree. I will take hold of its fruit stalks.’ Oh, may your breasts be like clusters of the vine." Apparently, fondling of the breasts is meant here. If such enjoyment of the body is intended, and since tasting (which involves the mouth) is part of that expression, it would seem safe to say that oral sex is permissible.

What does it mean to eat the choice fruits of his garden in 4:16? She is saying that she is "his garden" and that she desires that he eat of her fruit.

The poetic use of metaphors in describing the physical relationship is sometimes hard to fully apprehend, but it seems obvious from the context that intimate sexual union is implied.

"The beloved’s request that the winds blow on her garden, that is, herself (cf. vv. 12, 15) was a delicate, poetically beautiful invitation to her lover to fully possess her (come into her). She wished to be his with her charms as available as fruit on a tree."

Therefore, oral sex is permissible between a husband and wife.

2007-06-15 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

If you enjoy it then yes it's a sin.
Anything that you enjoy doing is sinful, that's the idea. You must feel guilty, repent, tithe , get saved and sin again. that's the business dear....

2007-06-15 14:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

The Bible says any sex not for procreation is evil. That why it says "man shall not lie with man as he does with woman." not because they hate gay people for being gay but because they can't reproduce. So yeah, unless a person can have baby that way, the Bible says it's wrong.

2007-06-15 14:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by yeahyeah 4 · 1 5

It depends upon who you talk to and which bible you read.

2007-06-15 14:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0 0

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