Do we need it at all?
2007-06-15 04:48:05 · 23 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-0- Jealousy for me is like a cancer ... or a long scary train ride with no way to get off. I just tell my jealousy thoughts I am not buying today. Today is all we have so I am going to make it count.
Perhaps the question is "Do I respect people" Some girls and guys just don't. Truly this is just a test. A test of charactor ... pass this test ... others to follow, fail and the lesson will continue to show up.
What goes around comes around. And ask yourself what you would tell your child when they are your age ... what advice would you give them?
Take care.
2007-06-15 04:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Shells 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah i think its good to be REMINDED of that feeling, but you have to remember jealousy can do a lot of hurtful things, evil and wicked things. So i dont think jealousy has any real good cause in a relationship. But sometimes, when a relationship fades, you want your partner to feel jealous to make them relaise you still "got it" or are attractive to others, and to make them "fix up" their attitude towards the relationship.
So it all depends really on how you use it and how much. But personally, i wouldnt want jealousy inmy relationship. It causes resentment hate and arguements. X
2007-06-15 11:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
jealously is a negative thing. It isnt needed at all. Its also a sign of insecurity and weakness. If a person cant control jealousy, the other person should break up with them everytime. There are millions of other people out there who arnet insecure and dont get jealous. Life is too short to waste time with those who do get jealous
2007-06-15 11:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Jealousy is brought on by insecurity which is a symptom of low self esteem
so if there is any around you should take a look at your self and build your esteem up
no healthy relationship should have these issues
2007-06-15 11:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
There is no such thing as jealousy in a healthy relationship.
2007-06-18 11:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A little bit of jealousy lets the other person know you care about them... but keep it in moderation because too much jealousy will push someone away.
2007-06-15 11:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
None. Jealousy is nothing more than an ugly manifestation of insecurity.
2007-06-15 11:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well a little jealousy from a spouse is surelly needed. it feels pleasant that he thinks that his woman is needed by someone else too. because if a man is not jealous at all it feels like he doesn't give a damn about his woman. but too much jealousy is appauling
2007-06-15 12:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i dont think that jealousy is needed in any kind of realtionship. But it is really important to trust the partner you with.
2007-06-15 11:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by sparkle7 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nop! I dont think so. Everybody know what its jealous. Its not healthy for anyone. Its being selfish, drive your couple crazy, sad, and there is no paz anymore...You gays get angry and start to offense each other, the relashionship its damage and never gonna be the same again!
2007-06-15 11:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Nadia! 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋