I dont know if they are the type of poeple I can live with while at University, what do I do?
2007-06-15 04:13:34 · 24 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
move
2007-06-22 23:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you've lived together, and how bad the situation is, i mean, is it only their mood you don't like or is it also something else going on? If there's something illegal, like drugs or anything else...just leave! Now, if it is just about agreement with rules or tasks...u should all get together and talk about it.
I recommend: You should not be doing other people tasks, and if you feel left out in all the situations, not comfortable at all, than leave, but not before you have a nice talk!
Think: What's your purpose for being there? University, right ? That's where you should concentrate!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-06-22 22:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Shaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is in your best interest. If your potential roommates are the partying type then you probably don't want to risk your future for a few good times. Right? Keep in mind no matter who you live with their will probably be some static at one point or another. I lived with several different people during my college years, and it wasn't always easy, but that is to be expected. As long as you worry about why your their in the first place, and keep your eyes on the prize you should be alright.
2007-06-15 04:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by SDoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always try to work things out first...moving is usually a task. i need more details, but if you can then do..it's hard to live w/ people that don't have the same values as u or the same standards ya know....if you can go on and move, then move
u must be the minority in this situation like 3 to 1.
how did u w/ these people in the first place?
i hope everything works out for you
2007-06-15 04:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by ebonisun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your are truly "torn and confused" about your living situation, it is time for you to move on. If you have problems recognizing negative situations use this dimple rule: If you have to think twice about any situation then it is time to change the situation. Get out, move on and never, I repeat, never look back. See in the next life.
2007-06-20 16:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by johny0802 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my dearest friends and I went to the same college. We had been together since kindergarten and knew each other well. We shared a dorm room the first semester of college. While we loved one another, we couldn't live together. We fought and got on each other's nerves constantly. Save the friendship. Move out.
2007-06-21 18:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by R.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I alwys think that if you have to ask yourself a question, then you know in your heart it's wrong for you. If you were completely happy and had no concerns, you wouldnt be asking the question. You just need others to tell you want you already really know - move out.
2007-06-23 04:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to them and tell them how you feel,they may be feeling the same sometimes clearing the air can make things easyer to deal with if this dosnt work then move out you need a clear head to study hope this help good luck
2007-06-21 14:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by mish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to give it a try and if it is not working out then find somewhere more suitable. Hope this helps and good luck with your university course!
2007-06-15 06:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Carman Run, run as fast as you can and don't you never look back. Oh I'm sorry I was reading a book about a girl who moved in with some friends then became their slave. So what was your question again?
2007-06-15 04:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Boomrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you share a lease or rent? did you make a contract with this person? If so...hang in there...its a ***** but, just wait until your contract/lease is up. You will be a stronger person in the end...BUT if there is not contract or lease...get out if you feel that strongly...do not suffer. Although you may benefit from dealing with it...if its that bad get out. *if there is violence, drugs, or illegal stuff going on that you are not cool with...just get out!*
2007-06-22 02:52:24 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋