i met him on my cousin's birthday party..everything happend so fast..what should i do?..we really love each other..
he's my mom's cousine..don't over react coz u don't know..this might happen to you!!..i didn't know he's my uncle at first..
2007-06-15 01:39:19 · 29 answers · asked by el_chinitah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he is my uncle..and
2007-06-15 01:55:49 · update #1
that's wrong
2007-06-15 02:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this couldn't happen to me, because I am a strong and rational person. Believe it or not, as strong and significant as love is, it can be overridden by common sense, logic, and responsible actions. In other words, he's your uncle. You need to stop it, get over it, and move on with your life. All that is going to happen if you pursue this any further is that you will be hurt and humiliated. My advice is to keep away from him, don't talk to him unless you are with your family, keep yourself busy, go out and have some fun, hang out with your friends, get some exercise, and when you feel you are ready, go find yourself an appropriate guy to share your love with. You do this, and you'll get over your uncle soon enough. Good luck!
2007-06-15 01:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, he isn't your uncle. If he is your mother's cousin then he is something like, "second cousin, once removed." Depending on the state, there isn't anything illegal with this, but you should just stay away and get yourself someone your age.
You both seem to have issues, I don't mean that as an attack, but you should get some help.
2007-06-15 01:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by dinger136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually he is not your uncle. He is your second cousin. An uncle would be the brothers of your father and mother, not cousins
2007-06-15 01:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your moms cousin is not your uncle. Second of all ewww. For the love of god do not pursue this or else you two will have flipper kids. There are plenty of other guys out there who aren't related to you try dating them.
2007-06-15 01:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by nobody 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is you Mom's cousin also your uncle?
There may be a precedent for strange relationships in your family already.
2007-06-15 02:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst off, I certainly hope you used protection. You're obviously way too young to even understand what love is if you're hooking up with your uncle/cousin whatever you want to call him...and nooooo, no 'normal' person would ever consider it. He wants you for sex and nothing else my dear.
2007-06-15 01:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is your mothers brother, he's not your uncle. How old is this guy? Is he married? If you are under 21 and he is older than that, then you need to tell your mother that he hit on you.
If he's not married and he's your age, and he's not your mothers brother, then there isn't really a problem.
2007-06-15 02:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your mom's cousin then how can he be your uncle and how far removed is he if he is like a 3rd cousin that should be o.k.
2007-06-15 01:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem ok now, but don't even go there!!! You would regret it for the rest of your life and NO guy is worth that. Tell him you have to end it and go without talking to him for at least 2 weeks.
2007-06-15 01:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first... I would learn how to spell. Then, it would never happen to me because as soon as I would find out hes my uncle I would be soo grossed out that I would run far far away. Last, I would seek professional counseling if I were you.
2007-06-15 01:43:09 · answer #11 · answered by Queen of Kings 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋