My x-boyfriend accused me of going out with a sugar daddy. He said his friend told him that he saw me holding hands with a sugar D when passing a certain club. for God sake, av never date a sugar D in my hole life. my x-boyfriend believed the story, the following day he come to ma place and started asking me story and i told him the truth that he was the only guy i love and i dont have an affair with a sugar D behind his back then he was like forcing me to accept the hurting strory, I tried to convince him that i was innocent but to no avail, u know i was so confused, i was so into him, madly inlove with him and i just thought that his friend din't tell him anything but he was just tired with my love and me so i just broke up with him coz i thought he had no trust in me therefore cannot trully love me. since that day uptodate i fail to love any other guy in this world coz i just feel and fear that he might have the same characters with my x-boyfriend. Advise me please.
2007-06-15 00:04:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your man loved you he's listen to you more then his friend. Did his friend show any jealousy in your relationship or was your boyfriend looking for a way out and wanted you to call it quits? I'd take a break from relationships or all your gonna do is compare and the right guy could come along and you'd diss him with the same brush. You'll meet someone when your head not just your heart is ready.
2007-06-15 00:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by sez75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap out of it. You two broke up because his friend told him that you holding hands with some other guy? If he never really tried to believe you or trust you, maybe he also wanted to move on. On the flip side, I guess he still haven't trusted you as yet. Do you have any reason why that's the case?
Take a few days, weeks, months to get over it. The time off should prevent you from getting into a rebound relationship. Unless you lucked out, rebounds aren't good.
2007-06-15 01:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Stewy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bring back alot of bad memories for me. I'm glad you got out when you did. Without harping on this "play" I think you might have gotten the point.... or at least, soon you will see it more clearly. The accuser is usually the one at fault. If they ask for reasuranceand you give it. Yet they refuse your humbleness and confessions get away get away get away. There are better loves to hold.
2007-06-15 00:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will advice you not to rush into any relationship yet, deal with your hurt first and let it die down. if you don't, you won't love the next guy like you loved the last one. forget about the past first, then you can get along with life, this time you'll get a nice, loving young man who will make your dreams as a woman come true.
2007-06-15 00:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweet sixteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ONLY thing that can heal this kind of hurt is TIME and COMPANY.
i'm sorry girl, i know u are scared, and i wont say just open your heart to anyone, but PLEASE dont shut them out either. just be very careful and try to think of all the new guys as JUST FRIENDS from now on. when you finally do ACCIDENTLY fall in love with one, he just may be the one.
and remember, what doesnt killll you will make you stronger.
2007-06-15 00:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for your ex, he treated you terribly and you were right in that if he doesn't trust you, he can't really love you. Give yourself some time, your ex has broken your heart and that takes time to heal. You will eventually be able to be with someone else.
2007-06-15 00:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there are some good men out there. Just don't let yourself fall in love too fast. Wait to get to know them better before allowing yourself to get too involved emotionally.
2007-06-15 00:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the rumours and who started them, I'd be more worried that your x believed them, says something about what he's prepared to listen to, no trust, the relationship's doomed
2007-06-15 00:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by aussiegeezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling. dont feel like this. not all guys are like this.. go on dates and u might find a gr8 guy who will change ur whole mindset on guys having the same character as ur ex-guy. *huggles* gd luck. (:
2016-05-21 00:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call ur x c if he wants 2 get back 2gether!
2007-06-15 00:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋