what would you do if you knew that your b/f's cousin was cheating on his gf with someone else (a girl) and he'd got the other girl pregnant. He says he's going to tell his gf soon that its over, but so far he hasnt had the bottle to do it. Do i just go ahead and tell her myself?, Tell his mum and hope she can sort it out? or leave it to him to sort it out.
ps i have his gf phoning me asking what is going on.
2007-06-14 22:35:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi everyone, thank you all for your answers. He's finally told his gf that its over. Now the sick b****** has the other girl living with him (he lives at his mums) and she's preggers with another man's baby. sick or what?
Thanks again for all your help, as i cant choose a best answer coz they re all great im going to leave it up to the public to decide.
2007-06-18 01:12:46 · update #1
If she asks you then tell her the truth as a good friend....answer with honesty....
A good friend will never cover things up.
If you were her you would want to know wouldn't you?
2007-06-14 22:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
She obviously knows something is going on and if she finds out at a later date you knew and said nothing she won't forgive you for it believe me.
Tell him you're going to tell someone be it his mum or his gf and see what he says or does, he may just decide to stick his head in the sand but he may do the right thing if you confront him.
Not a nice situation so good luck.
2007-06-15 02:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it as it will only cause problems with you and your boyfriend in the long run. If I was you the next time his girlfriend calls I would just say you don't know whats going on and that you would rather talk about something else because it puts you in a awkward situation.
2007-06-14 22:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl defiantly has a right to know, but it would be best for all concerned if it came from her bloke himself - obviously he won't want to tell her though, as much as he says he does.
I think you should talk to him and give him a time, say 1 week at the most to tell her - let him know that if he hasn't told her by the deadline, then you will tell her yourself. That should force him to tell her, and I think in the long run that will be best for everyone. If he hasn't told her by the deadline though, you have to make good on your threat and tell her yourself.
2007-06-14 22:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by board-stupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god I don't know !! If she is a really good friend of yours then she'll be upset that u never told her!!
Then again ur boyfs cousin might end up hating u 4 interfering!!
I'd push for him 2 tell her coz sometimes u end up getting 2 involved!!
Good luck!
2007-06-14 22:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Summer84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that its her boyfriend that she needs to talk to and that you dont feel its your place get involed that way it urges you bf cousin to come out and tell the truth and your letting your friend know that there is something going on but your not the person to be talking to good luck.
2007-06-14 23:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're the wrong person to be asking, and if she wants to know whats going on with her relationship, she should ask her bf.
You can offer her support etc afterwards, but best keep out of it as much as you can
2007-06-14 23:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Leaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the gf to speak to her bf - the relationship is between those two and has nothing to do with anyone else.
2007-06-14 22:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by choca-locka-baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes calling you asking whats going on then tell her ok, you need to be a good friend to her at the moment, she needs you. so tell her whats going on if she calls again because im sure youd wanna be told if you were this girl. she needs to get rid otf that worthless piece of space called a cheating p**ck of a man
2007-06-14 22:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Lewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her when she next phones you that there are issues that the b/f needs to address, tell her that you feel you are not the right person to give her the information and that she needs to talk to him... this way she will confront him and this will allow him to tell the truth, if not it will be up to you for she is ur family after all.... good luck
2007-06-14 23:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, mind youre own bussiness... no offence but if you really care about your cousins situation you should let her discover it... dont be a rat and tell her bout that...
the way i see it you have 2 options
1. set traps let her discover it... if you know the guy u can always set him up.... that way his caught red handed... the safe side is that you dont get involved(directly) with the fight if it get ugly and out of hand....
2. go tell her... its gonna take alot of courage but it may and may not work... shes gonna think that your a lier... worse case senario guy is gonna beat you up or youre relationship with your cousin is gonna be broken...
2007-06-14 22:47:44 · answer #11 · answered by Roy Mustang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋