i love her truly and honestly. and i will get good future.so what should i do. his brother is my best friend and i cann't live both of them.
2007-06-14 22:16:16 · 35 answers · asked by Himanshu A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unless her parents agree you will back off for the next 3 yrs till shes 18 dear
2007-06-14 22:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from? Would you be able to get advice from those close to you instead of complete strangers like us? The default answer is you shouldn't get yourself involved with her right now. The simple fact that you are asking for advice means that you already think its wrong. Life is pretty complex at times but and I don't have the right judging you or your actions and say that you are in the wrong...but there is a reason why 18 was choosen as a specific age to signify that a person is now an adult. When I was 16, I went to take a physical for the US Navy to see what options I had. I unknowningly signed all the necessary papers to get into the Navy. I even ended up in a room with a bunch of other guys who were there to actually join...and I was told to raise my hand then I swore an oath and all that crap. They didn't know I was only there to see what I can do if I were to enlist. They gave me a free Navy baseball cap then I went home and told my dad this. The next day he yelled at the people in the recruiting office (he was a chief petty officer in the navy at the time). Luckily I was not 18 or esle I might have been stuck there for he next 4 years. I look back at that and think how the hell was I ever that clueless. I was not mentally all there to grasp what was happening to me. So you see, you should at least wait. You never know where life will take you and you might look back at this and feel good that you made the right choice. Its funny that at any given moment in our live, we all feel like we know everything we need to know. It's only in hindsight that you realize that you actually didn't know jack-****.
2007-06-14 22:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by cpc26ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally yes, but no one would really say anything if she was 20 and you were 25, or if she was 24 and you were 29. If you really love her and she loves you, you should wait until she is a legal adult before you do anything and let her know that you are looking out for the best interest of the bother of you. Work on your good future and hold onto your best friend.
I'm a little unsure whether this girl feels the same way for you, but you need to understand that you both are kind of young to be making mature decisions about a relationship like this, even if you are 20.
It my recommendation that if you really really love her, wait until it's legal regardless of how much you think you both should be together, because she needs to be able to make a conscious mature decision to be with you as an adult.
2007-06-14 22:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Oishii.Hina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her as you say, you would wait until she was at the age of consent and see where things are then.
Your only 20 anyway which is still young. Good luck with the relationship and I hope things do work out well, but be respectful of her age and realize that things might change in 6months
2007-06-14 22:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by brat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good that you have conscience that is pricking you and as long as that you are feeling the prick of wrong doing, linger / delay the decision of expressing your love for the girl to her brother. Be sure, she too loves you. Let her complete her studies. Ask yourself, if you can wait that long. Ask yourself, if you can trust her that long. If all the answers are yes, age difference is not much. The only hitch is her and your not so mature mind. After both of you are committal about your feelings, take brother also in trust. he will understand.
2007-06-14 22:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by trimendiratta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most 15 year old girls are mature enough for a real relationship...
you're 20...find someone who is a bit older....its a bit unfair for both of you...for most of your friends, she'll be too young to hang out with...and she'll probably feel uncomfortable too. and if she is the sister of your best friend...there is no point in screwing up a perfectly good friendship...because if know what older brothers are like he will be protective and you'll end up not being friends anymore.
young love isn't always forever...don't break her heart and don't put yourself in a position that will hurt you as well.
2007-06-14 22:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by TeeKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "truly" love will land you in jail. How you feel is not wrong, but what you do with "how you feel" could get you into a lot of trouble. If you truly love her, leave her alone for 3 years. Let her grow up and you'll be more mature also.
2007-06-14 22:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest right now it's kind of creepy just because she's 15, man. However later when she gets older I see no problem with the age gap. Plus I suggest you look into the laws of where you live you could get charged with rape if anything happens in that department.
2007-06-14 22:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice if you love her enough and also your freedom wait for her until she is at least 17. It is mandatory for the state to press charges anytime before that age. It is not up to the parents. When she is 17 the parents are your only barrier. It may seem like forever and may never happen, but I advise you not to risk it. It will save you a lot of hassle and embarrassment.
2007-06-14 22:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate some advise at least wait until she is 16 before you go ahead with the sex thing. As i'm pretty sure anyone under the age of 16 is against the law.
Good luck
2007-06-14 22:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if your'e in love, your'e in love...
First Question?
Does she feel the same" Honestly..
cause she is rather young and although you guys have a good relationship now, she might need some time to live her life (sorry to say this) but with other people as well...
Remember that you both gotta be happy in this relationship or its not going to work...
I had this boryfriend when i was 14, we though we where in love, (we were close) but the problem was although he loved me alot, i couldn't committ cause i was to young...
I will always be sad cause i broke his heart, but if we didn't seperate we would have been miserable together...
2007-06-14 22:23:03 · answer #11 · answered by Alyssia G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋