My ex and i have decided to remain friends and we broke up over a year ago. He said there's a hotel in the city that he can get half price drinks and hotel rooms there for me and my friends on my birthday. He has a new girlfriend who is aware that he is still friends with me and that he still hangs out with me and she seems fine about it, but lately he's been going on about how pretty she is and how she has bigger knockers than me and bla bla, and he invited her to come have lunch with us, she said no but now he's invited her to my birthday party without asking me? I don't mind, but he's said that he thinks i'm perfect for him and before that he was playing footsies with me at lunch, plus he said he'd only book one hotel room knowing i only was staying behind. He gets pissed off when i mention picking up on my birthday, and i'm scared if i cancel my birthday plans then i have to reorganise it so he's not there, i'm afraid if i try to pick up a guy he'll ruin it for me, What do i do?
2007-06-14 21:41:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want him back but maybe he wants a threesome or something? i don't know, i just want to be his friend.
2007-06-14 21:51:52 · update #1
It's so obvious he still likes you, talking non stop about his now girlfriend and telling you all the stuff about her. I don't think he'll say something right then if u try talking to a guy because like you said his girlfriend will be there too and he can't be that obvious so enjoy your day but if you think you won't have fun and will be thinking about he'll do or say if you do this or that then I suggest you leave him out of this just plan something on your own with out him.
2007-06-14 21:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you are not interested in him. He is trying to get a piece of a##, and will definitely ruin your birthday. Call off the plans. Just tell him that you and your friends have decided to go out. If he asks where, tell him that you are not sure. If he is trying to cheat on this girl, just think about what he has done to you, and would probably do again. Why destroy your life with a cheater? If he gets mad, too bad. He made his decision a long time ago!!
2007-06-15 04:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he offfered the room, you have no obligation to him just because you accepted. he has no business getting pissed off at you or anything you do anymore. maybe you should have a little coversation with his girlfriend
2007-06-15 05:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by the wife in a lot of drama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not your birthday, then your days for the next year... lol. I wonder what makes you feel better with such a guy
2007-06-15 04:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋