Our eigth grade class went to Great America today for the last day of school. This one guy that I fancy didn't come (he said he didn't want to go because he thought it'd be boring).
Yesterday, we hung outside for the first time outside of school (although I've liked him for a few months now; I just don't know if the feelings are mutual) and we went to the park, then to his house and hung out in his room. (so I know where he lives now)
I bought one of those big rainbow lollipops at the amusement park today. Do you think it would seem stalkerish if I were to go to his house and give it to him as a wish-you-had-been-there kind of present? Or would he appreciate it? We're not best friends or anything, more like aquainteces/sorta-kinda friends. I just thought it'd be a cute idea.
Should I give it to him tomorrow (his house is only about a fifteen minute walk from mine)? Or would he get freaked out from me coming to his house?
2007-06-14 17:52:32 · 19 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a very laid-back, funny/goofy kind of person.
Also, I've met his mom before, so she knows me.
2007-06-14 18:12:54 · update #1
I don't think it's weird at all. It'd be really nice if you do it and I'm sure he'll appreciate it. He WON'T FREAK OUT. He won't freak out because he invited you to his house and even in his room, so of course he knows that you know where he lives, he even brought you to his house. Plus, since he's a funny, goofy guy, he'll be really positive and funny about it. I'm sure he'll be thrilled. It's a good idea and very cute. I'd suggest you do it!! It could also work as a subtle hint to tell him that you think of him that way. Good Luck
2007-06-15 05:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really cute idea, but I don't know if a guy would like a rainbow lollypop. You could go to his house and give it to him but when you see him or he answers the door put a big goofy smile on your face, hold out the lollypop and say, "Look what I got you." He might think it was cute of you then. It would give you a good reason to just go to his house and hang out with him.
2007-06-15 01:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absoluetly a great idea---sorry you didn't go but I got you this lollipop--aren't they cool??? See if he asks if you had fun--If not--he doesn't want to talk about it. Maybe he secretly wasn't allowed to go because of a parental issue--or no money--so don't pry or embarrass him--just offer the candy with a smile and get over it. I still think it is nice--if you get any indication of a stressful visit--or nerves--or dirty looks from family--get up and say I gotta go--see you in school--then leave--and don't look back....and do NOT go back. The reason maybe he has choresor family doesn't like visits or girls that drop over at a young age may appear forward--take the hint--be graceful and just be nice. smile==relax and good luck
2007-06-15 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you have his phone number?...If you do then you should give him a call tomorrow and ask him if he'll be home. I'm sure he'll get the idea that you want to go over. Just don't appear at his house unannounced. Best of luck!
2007-06-15 00:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by ⓡⓐⓠⓤⓔⓛ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he missed a great time and bring it to his house because he may get embarrassed in front of other people.Seems to me like a romance is brewing. If he didn't want you to know where he lived he would not have invited you there. Good Luck this may be your summer of a lifetime
2007-06-15 01:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by TINKERBELLE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesnt sound like a creepy thing to do, but it really depends on the type of guy he is, I say you give it to him the next time you hang out with him or whatever instead of actually going out of your way to give it to him
2007-06-15 00:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a hard question because it depends on the guy and your level of friendship. but im guessing that it cant hurt to give him a gift. who doesnt like gifts? since you hung out outside of school im guessing you are good enough friends to do that.
2007-06-15 00:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It makes you look needy. Wait 'till you're at school and tell him if he would have come on the trip, you would have got him a present. But since he didn't, you kept it for yourself. Then give it to him.
2007-06-15 00:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Whoda thunkit? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even for an 8th grader that seems kind of childish. He might think you are very strange. I have a grandson who is in 7th grade and I think he would laugh if anyone gave him a big sucker. I wouldn't go to his house, that would be even stranger.
2007-06-15 00:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he would get freaked out. I think he would probably be happy about it. It sounds like he likes you if you ask me. But, yeah, you should do it especially if it is only 15 minutes away.
2007-06-15 00:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋