Ok my best friend (a girl) and i had long time without seen eachother, and this past saturday, she came by my house, we had a great time together, we watched a movie and she was all sweet huggin me and touchin my face, lookin at me and tellin me how much she missed me!....we went to my room and since we were so sleepy we both felt to sleep it was nice! i loved wakin up next to heR!! :(....she knows i like her, but i asked her if she liked me back...and she kinda wanted to run!! she didnt say anything! she was shy or i dont know but my other friend came in so i couldnt ask her anymore!....do you guys think she likes me!? i mean i just want ur opinions for now...but when i see her again i will ask heR!! and no im not 12 guys! please i want honest answers....i do love this chick and i just wanted to see how u guys see this lil storY!...
2007-06-14 17:46:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has probably not changed her feelings. She just feels comfortable with you. Maybe you can be FWB.
2007-06-14 17:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your best friend for a reason. I don't know how long you guys have been friends but the fact that you haven't taken the relationship any further should tell you something. A component is missing from a love relationship. It might be interests, looks, or just personality in general. I'm not saying that any of these cannot be overcome with time, but you seem to have strong feelings for her and not getting them in return. The way I see it you can really push the dating thing and take a chance of losing a friend or you can just play it cool until she makes a move. If you choose the later then you will not lose a friend, but in not making a move you may miss a great relationship. Wow, I really didn't help here did I? LOL
2007-06-14 17:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by bldrjck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell from day to day how a person will be attracted to you--or you to them--it takes time---how old are you??? Why sleeping in your bed?? Oh I get it --you were tired. Well no one just falls asleep--she has a home or if she was tired you had a chance to respect her and you should have went to the couch--you got off on a bad foot in my book---you are worried about a girl that was around for a day--so what---I could have been there for the day and you would wonder if I liked you---you need to let it develop naturally---be on your best behavior--don't be a pesty type guy groping her everytime you see her and asking stupid questions. See her again--have fun and DO NOT ASK--you should be able to feel it in your heart--real men don't act like idiots--stop being a stupid boy--shut up and have fun. You may scare her away with dumb questions.
2007-06-14 17:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think the girl is attracted to you in some type of way. If not then she wouldn't have allowed herself to fall asleep with you. But, when you asked her did she like you, I don;t think she was running away from the question. AT THE TIME she might have had a boyfriend and maybe didn't want to start anything with you while in a relationship. Or it might could be that she's afraid to loose you as a friend. You know some friendships end because of that. Every person that comes in your life is not meant to be your mate.
2007-06-14 17:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be in the friend zone with this girl. I've had cute guys that I liked that were stuck in the friend zone simply because they lacked the excitement I needed from a guy because they liked me so much.
Let me explain that a little better. I had a friend for years that I adored but he agreed with everything I said, liked all the things I liked, bent over backwards to help me anytime I asked him to. There was no way I could see him as a regular guy, he was my friend. I even farted in front of him. I just couldn't see him as a romantic possibility. Ultimately it destroyed the friendship because he had to have more from me and I couldn't give it to him.
What I'm saying is get out of the friend zone quick or you will be stuck there forever.
2007-06-14 17:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, Your not 12, so how old are you. YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE LIKES YOU BECAUSE THEY MAKE IT CLEARLY KNOWN.
TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS AND ""LOOK AT WHAT YOU ARE GETTING (EMOTIONALLY) FROM HER, NOT WHAT YOU ARE GIVING OR WILLING TO GIVE (MONETARILY AND EMOTIONALLY).
Yes, there are different guidelines for women and men in these things. Good luck.
2007-06-14 17:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she is touching and hugging on you and being that affectionate then she must have some sort of feelings for you
2007-06-14 17:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by MELISSA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might but i'd need more proof 2 say that she likes u. from what i heard it just sounds like she missed u.
2007-06-14 17:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by carmelcat324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me sh likes you too but the best person to talk to is you know who and soon..GOOD LUCK
2007-06-14 17:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeerrr... i think go for it.. try..
2007-06-14 17:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by heartbeats_tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋