my hub hangs n bar 90%of the time is this just with the fellows or more to him being in the bar?

Answer 1

He is addicted to the bar lifestyle.

He may think his only friends are there.

Answer 2

He shouldn't be at the bar if he is a married man, he should be home with you. Go to the bar and find out what he has been doing there.

Answer 3

That's how my husband started out ,it was one night a week then before i knew it,he was staying out almost every single night until 2:00 am and he had to work the next day.He started having an affair with a co-worker and it had been going on for two 1/2 years before i fount
out about it,the worse part was she knew me and had been in my home when we had a Christmas party.Talk about a dog she was a dog ten times over and then some.My husband swore on his mother and fathers life that he had
never cheated on me.I'm telling you all this because if he is in the bars at night someone is drawing him there and it isn't the beer.If he is cheating on you,you will not find out by him
he will convince you that he isn't doing anything wrong and because you don't want to no the truth you will believe him.That is how husbands get away with it ,they no that they can tell their wives just about anything and we will believe them.It isn't because we are stupid it's to unbearable to think that the man you love and have been sleeping with could and would
have sex with someone else over and over again. Then he comes home and gets in bed with you and thinks to himself I did it I got away with it ,boy is she naive.I no you are thinking your husband wouldn't do that to you,not only would he do that to you ,they go out looking for it.If you don't believe me just go to IM if you have it and go to a open room and listen to all the married men and what they say about their wives and how boring they are and how he doesn't love his wife any longer.
It's horrible how men talk about their wives just to get another woman interested in him.I no you still don't believe me well I didn't either until he walked out the door.

Answer 4

3 possibilities

1. He likes his drinks.
2. He's not at the bar, he's really in a gay club, keeping it on the down-lo.
3. Can't word it right now, been drinking a bit myself. See: Andy Capp.

Answer 5

My ex hubby did too , and one day , it came to me, that his drinking and drinking buddies meant more to him than the kids and I did . the best thing I did was getting rid of that loser . take my word for it , if he is spending 90% of his time away from home...the marraige is over and you deserve better !