What do men like in their woman. Do they want educated smart women or good in the hay?

Question

I have a college degree and am very proud of it because I raised 2 kids while I studied and drove to classes every day, but as terrible as it to say it, and I may be bragging, but
I think men see me as a cash cow, I try not to tell males what I do for a living when I meet them.
Do men prefer educated of do they prefer the looks and the body, or do they just want someone who makes a lot of money? What turns a man on?

Answer 1

I can only answer your question in this manner, once at a CEO convention I met a man, I admired this man, I even liked the tie he wore, so at a lunch break I kinda walked with his crowd and enjoined them in lunch, I complimented him on his tie, I even dared to ask him how much it cost, I was prepared to hear $50 or $60 bucks, when he told me $250.00 I felt like a very small CEO in the presence of Giants. But Even after that, I felt good for in the end of it, I was still a CEO at a CEO convention, even though some of the other companies had more people in one department than we had all together.

I think its the company you find yourself in, if you are in the presence of men you can't mention or have to mention your income in, then you are in the wrong crowd of people, change your level or status of men and do not feel a need to discuss money where matters of the heart reign supreme

Good luck on your search for a REAL MAN: oh I almost forgot the thrust of your question, heres the heart of my answer,, males follow the scent of a woman, if you smell like cheap, then only cheap males with find you attactive, if you smell like mother, wife, friend, protector, then men will line up for you ... :)

Answer 2

I prefer good looking, fit, educated women that are good in bed and aren't looking to be taken care of. She should have friends, be social, not smoke or use drugs, not have been married, and not have kids. She shouldn't have a Jerry Springer background. She should realize that having a boyfriend is not like owning a BMW. She should also realize that someone can not make her happy, only happier (or more miserable).

Answer 3

The right combination is what makes a person desirable and interesting. I would definitely recommend you to look for a man who has the same level as you (not only material). I am sure you will find that someone.

Answer 4

Obviously i like women who are attractive, but the only reason i would stay is based totally on their mental state. It's how they treat me, not whether they're smart or dumb. Rich or poor. Someone who is realistic and realizes that i'm a human being and have my own wants and desires and make my own decisions. Every time i meet a woman they always want to change me or own me. I'm getting tired of it. Good question.

Answer 5

It's true that men are very visually motivated, but I think that many many men are secretly attracted to intelligent women. Then again, there are a few sissy sexist guys out there who are intimated or offended by women who make more $$ than them.

Answer 6

For short relationships- mainly looks. a great education and extra money is always a plus but definately not a necessity. wachu mean be 'cash cow'?

Answer 7

Intelligent is a bigger priority than educated for me. I'm not really worried about her sexual prowess to begin with because that's something a couple needs to learn together - meaning they need to learn how to please one another rather than just being "good in bed". Beyond that, feminine without being high maintenance, kind hearted, playful, open-minded.

Answer 8

It is a fact that the more education a woman has the more liberated she is in the sack. So guys.. you don't even have to choose.

Answer 9

i like a women to be smart. but they need to down to earth and not stuck up or too good. looks are not every thing but being a good women, honest, and treating there man good and sticking by them is important.

Answer 10

you know men who are out for money or what ever are not men to get in a relationship with. men who want to be in a relationship with you because they want to be becasue they care for you those are the guys to go for. and to them you could be a stripper or you could be a rocket scientist it wont matter