i just asked my bf will u ever talk to another girl he said...NO i told him will u ever get to know a girl from the net he said no...then i told him like in school and all he said yeah sure...i could i told him then how come if i want to make friends with guys its not ok with u?? he goes like OFCORSE its not ok then we had a fight
2007-06-14 16:11:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dint start the fight all idid was ASK him a question WHY IS IT OK FOR HIM to have only friends ''girls'' but NOT OK FOR ME?????
2007-06-14 16:17:53 · update #1
Like liinny sais, it's all a matter of trust! I have some point for you to ponder over: 1. can he, and if he can will he, trust you over all matters? 2. Even if he trust you or don't, can you, and if you can will you, trust him over all matters? After answering those two, that's when you wheigh matters about your relationship and make things roll. If things won't roll, don't stay stagnant. If things won't work out, at least try to be friends. But do not think that staying as friends mean its a repair for a broken relationship. It's just another route in life besides having a relationship. Take Care!
2007-06-14 16:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by g3tbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are sorry and give him some time. You had what is known as "the talk". Guys hate this and usually can't deal with it. He may not say he is sorry because some males' vocal cords are unable to make these sounds. If you do have male friends, make sure you are only taking part in platonic actions (just friends). Do not flirt or get close, make physical contact with these friends. If he says he doesn't want you to have guy friends, he has deep feelings for you and is dealing with powerful feelings he may not be used to. Logic may not be working for him now. Believe me this is easy to talk about but very tricky and difficult to do.
After saying you are sorry, in a day or two, just walk up to him and say something to break the ice and act like nothing happened and he will be relieved. There will be fights and they are not the end of the world it you can try not to over-react.
2007-06-14 23:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by SireneRie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg!!!so its okay with you if he talks to girls??? see.... maybe he wants you to think its a serious relationship....mine and my ex said no talking to boys and no talking to girls....unless we were with each other...maybe you guys should sit and talk about it make him trust you...make sure he knows that YOU trust him....and im readin what these people are telling you to do ...not right..fighting is always gonna happen...those lil arguements make things better..not at the time but in time they do.thats really not that big just let him trust you...and you trust him if it doesnt work then its not ment to be..
2007-06-14 23:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by liinny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You started the fight. You need to apologize.
2007-06-14 23:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he is too sensitive. if both of u love each other truly, there's no restriction for both of u to know or make friends who are the opposite sex. dont be too sentimental.
2007-06-14 23:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mike P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to fight in a relationship,all u need is to back off.
2007-06-14 23:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by king 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋