How do i know if he really loves me?

Question

I love my bf alot,but im not sure if he likes me as much.He hugs me,cuddles with me,he is real shy,and he sometimes hang with me.How do i know if he really likes me? =I

Answer 1

Has he let you wear his favorite old jacket or shirt? Has he given you some little token of his, a good luck charm of sorts?
Once you are together for awhile, he may get close some days and then other days seem if he is ignoring you. He is backing up so he can get close again. He may not even know he's doing that. That is why you feel you like him more than he likes you. It takes boys a looong time to admit the love. They show it more than they talk about it. Many males are into actions more than words. This is frustrating but being patient will make you the best girlfriend ever. Read books about it and you will find that every female goes through the same thing.

Answer 2

As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, now retired, let me recommend first of all that you define for yourself what you mean by "really", and, as well, how you define "love". "Really" is simply a measuring stick that people use to determine whether they are happy with what's going on. "Love" has more defintions than I had professional letters after my name while I was in the profession. Once you define those two terms for yourself, then you can apply it to your boyfriend and see how he measures up. You can be sure he's doing the same to you. God Bless you.

Answer 3

Does he do things that normally he wouldn't do? That's one way-through his actions. Does he fuss over you? (Go out of his way to make things nice for you?) Does he listen to your stories. Look into his eyes; do they dilate when he looks at you? One thing to remember is that not everyone expresses love the same way. Some people say it, others like to touch the ones they love, some people like to spend time on their loved ones and others buy gifts. Finding how people express this is important; he may be telling you in a way that you don't realize.
Good Luck,
-H

Answer 4

Well, there's no sure way to tell if someone loves you back.. Because you really can't see the truth behind the masks that people wear.. But if you truly love him then give him time to show that he loves you the same.. But don't corner him with your love.. It might chase him away..

Answer 5

Well...To do all this he must have feelings about you...or else he wouldn't hang and cuddle with you...But ask him how he feels if you really want to know...He won't mind..

Answer 6

It sounds like me i'm real shy and trust if a girl did that with me I would be puddy in her fingers. So to me it sounds like he likes you "good luck"

Answer 7

she's right if he didn't like you he would be with someone else. Just be happy your together and enjoy it don't worry about things like that. if you show you're insecure he may get turned off. so just be happy, have fun and go with the flow.

Answer 8

Ask him how he feels about you...don't say love unless he does! Honest relationships are the best!

Answer 9

ok first... do you want to know if he likes you or loves you. second when he knows he loves you then he will tell you. and if he has said that he really likes you then trust him. without trust then you couldnt love him. so when he says he likes or loves you then you have no choice but to believe it or not love him. but dont try and force it out of him. wait until he is ready to express it.

Answer 10

most of the time it depends on how they act and if you tell him you love him and says it back and enjoys being around you or you could ask him