What is with guys that say they love you one minute and don't want to talk to you the next?

Question

And repeat this pattern over and over? This guy...doesn't seem to want to be with me...but can't let go completely...? We keep coming back to eachother...but then sometimes we won't talk to eachother for days. so confused...

Answer 1

I understand completely what you are going through becasue i am going through the same thing for 3 years now. We stop talking for weeks or months then one day we come back to each other and pick up right where we left off. I think you need to try and let go and get over him. I know this may be hard but its something that probably needs to be done. If that doesn't work out just try and talk to him about it ask him why this keeps happening and tell him that he needs to decided whether or not he wants to be with you

Answer 2

Stop fooling yourself into thinking he cares. If he loved you he wouldn't treat you like crap. Stop going back or you'll just keep getting your heart broken. The reason guys like that are able to exist is because women allow them to. They allow these guys to keep walking all over them, he's only doing what you allow him to. End the cycle now and move on.

Answer 3

Because for that minute we say we don't want to talk to you, we actually are using some sense. Then when we start back taking to you we aren't using sense.

Answer 4

Why do you need to talk to him everyday? If you don't have a commitment and you are just dating, not talking for a few days is normal.

Answer 5

well either he does love you a lot and he felt rejected so he lashed out at you. or it could be borderline personality disorder. theres a book about BPD called " I hate you , dont leave me"

Answer 6

they only want to get into your pants. sorry to say.