There is one girl I like a whole lot, but I feel she doesn't like me the same way. In fact sometimes it feels like we go backwards, but I don't want to give up..There are other girls that I know from school, work etc... That are always showing strong interest in me... I'm a 20 year old guy and us men have our needs... I'm not sure if I should wait or just give in... What do you think?
2007-06-14 14:18:05 · 15 answers · asked by C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with."
Just make sure you don't tell any lies or get any false hopes up. Use protection.
2007-06-14 14:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all just like guys find it nasty when a girl sleeps around with loads of guys well girls think it's nasty when guys try to do every girl they possibly can. And what ever guy is like the one you just described then he must not care much about the girls he's been with if he's gone through that many. And If it was me if I had a boyfriend or didn't I wold never do anything like that with a guy like that.
2016-05-20 22:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hookin' up with other girls while you're trying to impress the girl you like will not make you look better to her. What happens if she finally decides to date you and whoops...you got another girl knocked up and you have to deal with? I realize you have needs, but unless you're really interested in another woman, and not just what's under her skirt...Take matters into your own hands. It wouldn't be the first time.
2007-06-14 14:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by RanaBanana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go sleeping around
i'm not saying wait for marraige, but at least don't have sex with anyone unless you're in a relationship with them and you have strong feelings for eachother. it means more that way, and when a future partner asks you about your history, she'll be impressed that you didn't go around with lots of random girls.
2007-06-14 14:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be noble to wait, but I would check out the best of the others showing interest- just be carefull you don't pick a stalker- and if she is really hot for you, be safe, use protection!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-14 14:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by riverwooddude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor guy he has needs should he give in? hello if you love someone you should fight for her not thinking of giuving in to some other girl. O I FORGOT YOU HAVE NEEDSSSSSSSS . You just have the hots for the girl do whatever you want but remeber use a comdom.
2007-06-14 14:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out where you stand with this girl. If just friends, then have a ball live the fantasy.
2007-06-14 14:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and keep trying for another week. If she still isn't that into you, give up and pursue others.
2007-06-14 14:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't just use whatever girl is trying to seduce you, but if you genuinely like the girl...that's a different story.
2007-06-14 14:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto is "I like the ones that like me".You should adopt the same.
2007-06-14 14:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋