I hate my life?

Question

my grades are average, my grandparents are sick, my dogs sick, my boyfriend hates me, im depressed. I want to die. But I'm a religious Christian. No counseling. Can't afford it. What can I do?

Answer 1

awww whatever u go through theres nothing that bad that should make u feel like that and u said that ur religious, well mabe gods just testing u so don't give in. stay strong and love yourself, love life. i'll make sure i'll keep u in my prayers. GOD BLESS U!!!

Answer 2

One thing I've learned in my 60 years about life, is that things change. You may be miserable today, but tomorrow something could happen that will make you happy! So any time I encounter a problem, or get depressed... I say to myself "this too shall pass". I also try to live by the fact that happiness is a state of mind... so think happy! Some people who live in really bad situations are still happy -- even though I know that "thinking happy" doesn't always help if there is real clinical depression involved. My father always used to say "Don't worry about the things you can't change"... so look at your list of complaints. You say "my grades are average" -- try to improve that, you can!! You say "my grandparents are sick" Not much you can do about that. You say "my dog is sick" -- take it to the vet. "my boyfriend hates me" talk to him and work it out... or get a new boyfriend! And by the way, there are free places for counseling. I don't mean to minimize what you are feeling... just offering some suggestions. And if you really do want to die... please get help!! I'm hoping it is just a "blue" day for you...

Answer 3

You could pick up your grades, spend time with your grandparents, take care of your dog, dump your boyfriend ( I say this because you shouldn't be with anyone who hates you), find a purpose in your life that you can be happy about. Volunteer a little bit of your time. This could also help you take a little break from your life and you will feel better when you go back to it. If you don't want to volunteer you find other things to do that are just for you. Any interests? Find balance between your school work, your dog, your grand parents and yourself. Once you find the balance, you will see your life improve and if you haven't dumped your boyfriend, he may not hate you so much after you have found the balance in your life.

Answer 4

I guess, I was there too and I think everyone goes through tough situations once in a while. Now there is a good news, it can only get better from here. The bad news is how long it will take to start getting better.

This is how I solved my situation. I worked real hard to get myself sooo busy that I can hardly think what is going around me. I didn't care if world is going upside down or something. I just worked hard, wasn't even sure if this hard work will pay off. Finally, I got out of good grades and continued with my hard work to become a professional. I cannot say if I am there where I always wanted to be, but at least I got out of that horrible state called depression. Try it, if you are lazy and love complaining then no one can help you. Not everyone is lucky enough to get everything in life without doing anything. Some of us have to achieve it hard way.

BTW. you don't need that BF, trust me, it is going to get even worse if you hang on to him. Lose him.

Answer 5

I know that life can be hard sometimes but you really need to think of how much better your life is then most,,children in Africa searching through garbage for something to eat,men and women dying in the war so that you may live and enjoy your freedom.People just finding out that they have cancer or aids so if you are a christian you'll realize that your life is not as bad as you think.I never meant for all this to trivialize what your feeling but there's always someone worse off then ourselves right.So really I hope things perk up for you ...good luck

Answer 6

Ur not so bad off, if ur grades are average thats better than failing. As to ur grandparents and ur dog, people and animals get sick and die. Its all part of life and death is nothing to be afraid of. If ur b/f hates u, obviously its time to drop his *** and move on to somone better. And we all get depressed somtimes, and wish we were dead at that moment! But then somthin or somone comes along that makes us think wow im glad im not dead and i didnt do somthin to m yself! And obviously as a christian as myself we cant really commit suicide because not only is it a straight shot to hell, but its the easy way out. And life is hard and we gotta jst roll with the bad times and look forward to all the good ones behind us and ahead. If u ever wanna talk email me at [e-mail], or im me on aim at ddawg45831. Or if u have yahoo im its ddawg4581! I hope u feel better it will be ok i promise!

Answer 7

Suicide isn't the answer! Maybe you should talk it out with a really close friend. That usually helps me. Maybe, if things don't work out with your bf, then you should break up. No sense in trying if nothing is there and it's just making you more depressed. And I'm sorry about your dog and grandparents. Just try spending time with them. As much as possible. =] Hope all is well.

Answer 8

I for one would find a good friend and vent to them. It sounds like you really need to get that bf out of your life. If he hates you why do you stay with him. There are so many guys out there that will treat you right. It sound like you are young so don't settle for just any guy. And as for you wanting to die Why? Ya life can be hard but god wouldn't give you anything that you can't handle. My favorite saying is what don't kill you makes you stronger. Keep you head up and your thought positive. Negative only brings you down more.

Answer 9

think about the postitive in your life. You still have grandparents, dogs, while others do not. Share the love, it helps them get better. Spread smiles to anyone you see, it sends back positive energy. If your boyfriend hates you, he's obviously not that important or you would both make an effort to fix things. You dont need him or anyone else to make you happy. You just need yourself.
When you wake up in the morning, smile at yourself in the mirror and think positively. Believe things will get better.

and most importantly-love yourself for who you are and what you have accomplished in your life.

Answer 10

i know its hard being depressed and all that, but honestly you gotta take yourself out of that mode. you know bad stuff happens all the time. but you gotta try to make it better instead of moping and being all sad and stuff cuz when your sad then it just makes things ten times worst. just do what you have to do and be there for your grandparents and your dog, you can only do the best you can and if their still sick and/or it gets worst then its not your fault because you tried your best. about your bf, i dont think he hates you. if he hates you he probly wouldve broken up with you already..so just talk to him. communication is a great way to solve things. so communicate and ask him why he "hates" you. and girl, you gotta start going out there, get yourself more busy and trust me itll get your mind off of depression.