I am here with her all day, take her out , play with her, and she still bites me. I know she is only playing , I don't want to hit her. I tell her firmly "NO" My b/f is very angry because she bites me and it is causing alot of probs. I can't be mean to her.. it is not in my nature to be mean to anybody or anything> tips on calming her down? that don't involve taking to trainer.. she is causing alot of stress and strife in my life
2007-06-14 13:14:37 · 17 answers · asked by victoria c 4 in Pets ➔ Dogs
There is a difference between being mean and being firm. She needs dicipline and guidance. You need to make it clear that she is not allowed to bite. When she bites grab her by the scruff and lift her so that her front paws are off the ground and command "no" very loud and firmly. You have to take control and be direct. People by nature are netorious for sending mixed signals while dogs send very clear signals such as "lets play....get away from my food....I'm hurt." You have to do the same thing by speaking with your voice and body.
2007-06-14 13:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discipline her when she acts this way. I know it may seem mean now, but it's the only thing that will teach her not to bite. Maybe you should buy her a few chewing toys so that she'll get used chewing on the toys instead of biting you. I don't like disciplining my dogs either, but sometimes you have to when they don't listen. If that doesn't work then she will probably just grow out of it sooner or later. Remember, all puppies bite, but they still need to be taught when it's okay to play and when it's not. Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-06-14 13:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this with empathy and I do not mean to offend you, but you should find her a loving family, who CAN afford to take her to school and who can take care of her better than you can. If you need help, contact the Humane Society/
You seem to be very hard up if you cannot even afford lessons or a training club. I would bet my bottom dollar that there are other things the dog misses out on, because you don't have the money for it. What about good quality toys? Good quality food?
You have really given yourself the answer already, haven't you?
"she is causing alot of stress and strife in my life... "
A dog should cause joy and a warm overflowing feeling of love for both you AND your boyfriend. You and the dog both deserve better than this.
Wait till you are a bit older and have more money and a more helpful boyfriend, not one who is angry and considers the dog a problem.
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2007-06-14 13:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Semolina's Pointer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even if you can't afford obedience classes, you could call your vet or local pet store. They will have tips on what you could do, and sometimes there are public workshops or information sessions that you could go to. Also, try finding some books about dogs and puppies, even if they are written for children. A librarian will help you find a respectable author or publisher for informative books! Also, try getting your puppy lots of things to chew (dog stuffed animals, Kong toys) these are sold at any pet store or even Wal Mart and aren't too expensive plus they provide entertainment for your dog!
2007-06-14 13:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my puppy was in the phase (she still is, but not as bad) I'd say NO! And pick her up and stare her in the eye.
I guess you don't want to hit her but sometimes I do or I flick her nose.
Do you have a crate or a room that you keep penned off for her? Say "no biting!" and put her in her cage. Leave her in there for a minute or two and then bring her out. Make her learn that playing with you is a PRIVILEGE but if she doesn't play by your rules, then she has to go to her cage.
Be consistent!
2007-06-14 13:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by ahelaumakani 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont have to *hit* the puppy to discipline, just a hard push or a spray bottle, everytime she bites you, spray her. Or better yet, act like a dog yourself and bully her around until she doesnt want to be around you at the time, works w me. tips on calming her down, WALK HER! I know shes apuppy but a walk down the street and back will def tire a puppy out! And the thing w your b/f, thats just stupid.
2007-06-14 15:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by claire w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop a plan to discipline her when she does this. When a puppies sibling bite they bite back. That's how they learn that it is not fun, and it will be a way for you to take place as the alpha female.
2007-06-14 13:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Belgariad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth did you accept responsibility for a dog, if you are not able to afford to provide the basic essentials?
Your best bet is to find the money to provide this service to your dog.....not just for the dog but for you too, thats if you want your dog to be an outstanding canine citizen....or find a new home for your dog that can afford these thigs for this animal, its just not fair to the dog, or yourself.
qestion for you
if you can not afford obedience classes what are you going to do if some medical emergency arises and the dog has to be rushed to vet? could cost $100s of dollars in one big hit.
If you cant do it DONT do it.
2007-06-14 13:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a puppy that did that. I had to put her in a time out spot. Which meant if she was going to misbehave then I wasn't going to play with her. When she did behave, I would play with her. It worked for me.
2007-06-14 13:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a toy or treat that is acceptable to bite and chew on. When she uses it reward her. When she tries to bite you offer the treat or toy.
2007-06-14 13:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by IAMADOG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋